Counter Points against KAM?

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-02-26T22:07:53+00:00

dont have a girlfriend that says kam

craigmunday · 2021-02-26T22:18:27+00:00

Just dump her

foxheadwaffle · 2021-02-26T21:49:30+00:00

She had the argument of "it only means the bad men, not all men"

If it only means bad men why is it not "Kill all bad men" instead of "Kill all men"

NotherThrowaway284 · 2021-02-26T22:30:48+00:00

First of all, your girlfriend really is a morally disordered human being for ever thinking such talk even could be acceptable.

"Cold-blooded, hate-fueled murder, under the right circumstances, is a perfectly acceptable course of action. I have a moral philosophy that explains this."

That is a seriously morally disordered human being right there. So is a person who would use such rhetoric without literally meaning it specifically in order to be intentionally hateful and hurtful (so no way does that bullshit about irony get her or any others off the hook).

Second of all, just flip it around on her and use "KAW" comments the next time some woman online is crude, rude, nasty, or just insensitive. Show them to her. Tell her she has convinced you it's okay to do.

But be prepared for histrionics.

NAWALT_VADER · 2021-02-27T00:03:10+00:00

If you were to say "All women are mentally unstable." would she understand that you of course don't mean ALL women, just the ones who are mentally unstable? Or would she complain "Not all women!" Would she wonder why you say "all women" when you only mean the ones who are mentally unstable?

Would she take offense to any of it, or just shrug it off because she knows she isn't mentally unstable so she knows you can't be talking about her when you say "All women are mentally unstable."?

If she can accept that when you say "All women are mentally unstable." that you don't mean all women, then maybe you can learn to accept that when she says "Kill all men." she doesn't really mean all men.

Or maybe you should just get a decent human being for a girlfriend instead. One that doesn't use misandristic phrases like "Kill all men."

Greg_W_Allan · 2021-02-27T02:51:55+00:00

How about we don't demand anybody be killed.

Rifter0876 · 2021-02-26T22:33:23+00:00

I'd just dump someone dumb enough to support that statement. You can't use intelligent logical arguments with idiots because they just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

imjusthereforresearc · 2021-02-26T23:56:43+00:00

Arguing with people you care about is almost never a good strategy.

Try to make her understand how it makes you feel, without trying to convince her logically of your position.

iainmf · 2021-02-27T06:22:17+00:00

Just tell her how you feel about it and ask her to stop using it.

If that's not enough, then a more serious talk about her taking your emotions seriously is probably needed.

mr_d_inspecter · 2021-03-01T01:36:04+00:00

if its not all men and its just bad men why is it KAM and not KBM

toadexplosion · 2021-02-27T00:41:17+00:00

The correct response to a girlfriend who says kill all men is "goodbye."

Deadlocked02 · 2021-02-26T22:30:14+00:00

Tbh, I think the MRM focus way too much on this kill all men bullshit, whose existence is no doubt a double standard, but should pay more attention to more subtle but still very destructive ideas disseminated by both radical and “moderate” feminism.

Raider1FN · 2021-02-27T01:47:36+00:00

Just ask her, what if it was Kill all Women? How would she feel if you typed that every where? Throw it all In her court, stand your ground and tell her she's wrong. That you don't appreciate it and you can't date a girl that thinks such extremes. Make her feel real bad, be the fucking ALPHA! Show her you're capable of easily walking away.

antilopes · 2021-02-28T04:00:21+00:00

She said "kill ALL men". THAT INCLUDES YOU! WORDS HAVE MEANINGS RUN RUN RUN DONT TRY TO SAVE YOUR PS4 IT COULD BE THE LAST THING YOU DO

But seriously, talk about how it hurts your feelings. Arguing logically with loved ones about things that affect you emotionally is generally risky.

Your argument is unlikely to be as watertight as you think it is. And if it is, that might make it worse not better. Unless "winning" arguments is your highest purpose in life.

alclarkey · 2021-02-27T02:14:29+00:00

Break up with her. It's not exactly an easy point for them defend. The fact she even bothered to try and defend this obviously bigoted statement speaks volumes to her character.

SporkTornado · 2021-02-27T06:54:05+00:00

I judge these things by using "Would it be hate speech it we replaced 'men' with muslims, blacks, jews, women, etc"

d_nijmegen · 2021-02-27T07:21:14+00:00

As soon as a woman said kill all men. You should act like she's dead to you. Immediately!

IThinkThisIsReddit · 2021-02-27T21:17:48+00:00

Dump

KAMsORn2 · 2021-03-04T02:21:19+00:00

Bruh

Title	Counter Points against KAM?
Author	foxheadwaffle
Upvotes	7
Comments	41
Date	February 26, 2021 9:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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