Current conversation with an acquaintance

Lethn · 2018-07-31T17:52:28+00:00

I know it sounds harsh but I'd honestly consider ditching somebody over that, if they can't even show the slightest bit of empathy and instead just makes excuses why should you hang out with them? I can't trust people who can just switch off like that, big red flag for me.

mattmogo · 2018-07-31T18:51:42+00:00

yeah, men are stronger, women have the fucking legal backing of the state. give and a take.

check your female privilege lol

Juan_Golt · 2018-07-31T19:02:44+00:00

It is true that when I had a female stalker/abuser she was not as physically capable. If you put us in a boxing ring, I'm certain that I would easily prevail.

The problem IRL is that if she hits me nothing happens. If I defend myself, even slightly, I'm going to prison and she gains more control over me. Which is her goal. My goal was for her to leave me alone. Which is difficult to do when I can't get a restraining order, and police don't take her assaults seriously.

eldred2 · 2018-07-31T22:08:41+00:00

let's be real men are stronger.

I like to turn this kind of reasoning back on them. Using the same argument, one could assert that no women should be allowed in STEM fields, since men are better at it.

bufedad · 2018-07-31T19:04:21+00:00

Have her read this:

https://np.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/844rlm/serious_men_of_reddit_who_have_been_raped_by/

EricAllonde · 2018-08-01T00:11:35+00:00

Women are more likely than men to use weapons during DV. That helps explain why males are one third of all family violence homicides.

Women also kill children a lot more often than men do. I guess rather than go after a stronger man they prefer to pick on a helpless little kid.

Tell your friend those facts.

TheMythof_Feminism · 2018-07-31T19:43:40+00:00

Her 1:1 comparison is asinine.

We already know that the state strongly favors women and there is not a man alive that can stand up to the government by himself.

Rockbottom503 · 2018-07-31T20:28:05+00:00

What she’s effectively said there was ‘you’re the exception, we’re the rule, get over it and fall back in line’.

RapeMatters · 2018-08-01T01:21:40+00:00

I was drugged and raped by a woman. Tell him/her.

RaptorsCdwoods · 2018-08-01T01:56:22+00:00

I mean, there was that woman with the machete. Oh wait, the news didn’t call that rape. Well shit.

Media will NEVER show a women being the aggressor and by some miraculous leap they do then they won’t call it that.

Stripes1974 · 2018-08-01T05:05:41+00:00

Someone should have accused her of trying to hijack the Men's Rights narrative...

foot_kisser · 2018-07-31T19:18:03+00:00

There's evidence against the two assertions she made. Why tell us about it instead of showing her that evidence?

Maybe countering both at once would be too much for this conversation, but I'd at least show her an example of a woman violently beating and raping a man, since she asked for one.

Hellhound265 · 2018-08-01T04:36:17+00:00

Common answer. Just reply with the fact that not all men are taller and stronger than women, that men are likely to get abused and raped when they sleep.

Women use objects to hurt men and they are free to Do so because nobody cares.

Nova997 · 2018-08-01T04:57:55+00:00

ThErE ArE nO BiOloGicAl dIfFeReNcEs BeTwEen mEn AnD wOmEn

1LegendaryWombat · 2018-08-01T13:42:18+00:00

You don't hear it much because of THIS exact attitude.

Women typically use threats, coercion and wait until the man is weakened in some way before they take advantage.

A man on avaerage is physically stronger. thats it. Nothing else.

jp_mra · 2018-08-01T16:40:47+00:00

Apparently she has never heard of date rape drugs or teachers getting pregnant from 14 year old boys.

Dank_Meems · 2018-08-02T14:19:57+00:00

Every time I have the equality conversation with a woman, they always backpedal to that. Okay, so if men are inherently stronger, we're not equal. Make up your fucking mind...

osashta · 2018-08-01T02:14:49+00:00

This excuse makes me want to scream. Strength is not defined purely by muscles. Muscles don't mean shit if the woman has the upper hand in 6 other ways.

Title	Current conversation with an acquaintance
Author	PM_me_BigAsianBooty
Upvotes	68
Comments	35
Date	July 31, 2018 5:45 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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