False rape advice

jokerfriend6 · 2023-02-26T21:51:19+00:00

Get a lawyer, and don't go back to this club that obviously has turned for the worse. I doubt police will make the problem go away. They will interview everyone, and the police might believe them.

63daddy · 2023-02-26T21:52:46+00:00

I’d certainly consider reporting such a physical assault to police.

No-Knowledge-8867 · 2023-02-27T02:07:41+00:00

Report it to the police, ask to access surveillance footage. Hold on to any evidence of previous false accusation. Start building as much evidence as possible. Speak to a lawyer.

Lolocraft1 · 2023-02-27T04:54:15+00:00

Get a lawyer and make a complaint. Ask for the security camera footage

And for his sake, tell him to NOT go back in this club. That suck, but as long as nothing is legally done, the more he’ll come back, the worse it’ll become

HelpCapable6906 · 2023-02-27T04:02:30+00:00

This sounds like organized stalking which is a huge epidemic in society today. Some people claim it doesn’t exist although in it reality governments have kept it quiet. False rape accusations or accusations of pedophilia are common. Governments encourage people in the community to make these accusations because of their severe nature and the way it is viewed by society. They also like to claim people are terrorists.

Ok_Change_1063 · 2023-02-27T05:37:40+00:00

Lawyer, police. In that order.

blaizken_420 · 2023-02-27T05:46:37+00:00

If it ever gets pulled on you, say that you're gay and she's committing a hate crime.

UnconventionalXY · 2023-02-27T05:59:40+00:00

Rape allegations should be a criminal matter including mandatory police attendance and the full weight of the justice system, including contempt of court for false allegations or wasting the courts time, not white knights taking the law into their own hands.

The justice system is also becoming complicit in revenge rape accusations, by its own process facilitating punishing people before trial who may actually be not guilty.

Session-Special · 2023-02-27T00:09:00+00:00

As long as the social pressure is placed by the person who made the allegation there is nothing they can do.

The best they could do is prove the person a liar, but that will not take away the air or stigma they now have. They could go to another place to piss up, but again the shadow will come back. Nah the best they could do is start up the BBQ in the backyard have a few with the mates on the weekend and stay out of the place. That way if a few of the lads decide to look for a bit a fun - there are legal actions, and if they have a few mates well that usually makes the cur run for the hills.

In time it will be someone else, and then someone else until people realize the issue is not the men its the woman making the false claims. But that usually takes a couple of years.

SorensInsanity · 2023-02-26T21:49:21+00:00

Literally, leave Australia. Go to some Asian place.

No-Knowledge-8867 · 2023-02-27T03:11:09+00:00

As someone in Australia, what club did this happen at? I want to do all I can to avoid these types of situations

Cripstacey · 2023-02-27T03:40:44+00:00

Report the security to the office of fair trading. All security guards have to be licensed by the OOFT, and they can revoke a licence if a guard behaves unlawfully. Guards are only allowed to use open hand tactics, meaning, they can grab you and forcibly remove you from their premises, or restrain you until police arrive. They are strictly forbidden from choking, that is assault, and illegal. The OOFT is essentially an arm of the police which manages the security industry.

Edit: For Queensland Australia anyways.

toolsavvy · 2023-02-27T05:41:22+00:00

Talk about a glutton for punishment. Man's gotta be smarter than that. He ain't gonna last long in this world if he doesn't wise up a bit.

Consult lawyer, then police.

dw87190 · 2023-02-27T19:46:09+00:00

That's Australia for you. A woman can get any man ejected she wants, regardless of validity. Meanwhile at the bar I used to work in I was given three written warnings for kicking out creepy women for sexual harassment, raped by a coworker and the floor and bar manager told everyone about it and made it into a joke

PrintMoreMoneyz · 2023-02-26T22:05:37+00:00

Change your name,fake your death, start a new life. or get really ripped and fuck anyone up who tries to hurt you again.

Bretty64 · 2023-02-27T07:27:22+00:00

The same club, within weeks, accused of spiking drinks then accused of rape. Incredible coincidence.

greyman0425 · 2023-02-28T23:11:39+00:00

Lawyer up sue for damages and never go back to that club.

Throwawaytraumaacct1 · 2023-03-02T03:49:22+00:00

I’m in Melbourne too and last year got thrown out of numerous venues whenever id bump into my ex who was spreading lies about me,

Go to the cops but I wouldn’t expect much to come from it, do you have the names of the people who assaulted you? were death threats involved???

ultimately though id just recommended you avoid this venue, not worth the mental hardship of having to sit with your back against the wall every time because you're scared of a repeat Of the same incident.

if you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me.

Maxi-Spade · 2023-03-04T04:09:58+00:00

That's absolutely horrible! What is in the minds of these women? I have to think they are demonized.

Title	False rape advice
Author	furtgurgler
Upvotes	112
Comments	32
Date	February 26, 2023 9:45 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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