Feeling like giving up

mytummyhurts677 · 2023-11-13T07:39:01+00:00

I understand. I feel the same way constantly seeing misandry everywhere and when you want to talk about your problems you get shut down. We just need to unapologetically care for men’s rights and problems and if people get mad that says more about them than us

lostatlifecoach · 2023-11-13T09:19:41+00:00

You're a conservative Asian in California from what I can pull from your post history. I'm in the rural Midwest and one of my best friends is a conservative Asian bro. A lot of our factories are Japanese in our area. A lot of their kids are born here and just stay. We have Japanese speaking schools. Like a ridiculously high number of Japanese mostly Asians for the Midwest.

Also a lot of Indians. Just met an Indian bruh at the gym last week and we work out now. Maybe your problem is your area.

I used to love California don't get me wrong. They were always a little too far left for me but the last 10 years or so that place has become unliveable. Maybe a change in venue will help your mental health.

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-11-13T07:39:30+00:00

I wish I could give you a 'follow these x steps to get out of this' list, but sadly it isn't as easy as this.

Try to find yourself a community (ideally an offline one) which doesn't subscribe to these sentiments and which can help you to keep yourself grounded.

s1nur · 2023-11-13T14:11:12+00:00

Look on the bright side, they are outing themselves. You no longer have to live in an illusion.

WentToGetCigarettes · 2023-11-13T16:39:06+00:00

Hoes are everywhere. Hoelfation is rampant. Best thing to do right now is to just work on your goals amd dreams. Pay off any debts you have. Try to build wealth. Life is one big video game. Upgrade your character G. You'll make it! The path to success and self improvement is one of the most loneliest paths you'll ever take but it is the way. And throughout your journey down that path, you'll meet like minded people who are on that path. Everything is a mindset. Reprogram your cpu your brain. The people in charge make the rules of the game. So adapt and act accordingly. Don't shoot anybody. Don't hurt anybody. Let these npcs operate at baseline lvl in their brains. Lvl up every Stat just like a video game or rpg. Build a home gym. Eat right. Ignore the matrix and its lies. Drinking. Smoking. Eating shit. Not exercising. Not investing. Buy buy buy consume consume consume. No fuck that shit. You need to find a way out. You need to get rich and find the correct difficulty for you to overcome. Use me for example. I was a dishwasher. pizza delivery boy. Then a furniture delivery guy. I worked at easy home. Then I found a car part delivery store. Worked there for six years. Right now I'm 32 and just started trucking school. I found a trade in hauling. It was scary at first but I overcame the fear and I just said fuck it other men can do it so can I. Stop worrying about what woman think. Focus on yourself and when you do that woman can sense the magic in your eyes. But they can also sense desperstion. So you need to find a way to go out and conqure your world. Your video game. Then you can dive back into the matrix lvl 20 attack lvl 20 defence. Once you put a high price tag on yourself....you'll never look back at these hoes.

BetSuspicious6989 · 2023-11-13T08:37:20+00:00

Stay connected with people online. It’s hard to find and meet people who see the elephant in the room. Internets lets you know you aren’t alone. When I get down because I feel like nobody sees it but me, I try to flip the script and think of it as a gift and not a curse. And while it might be difficult to accept at least you know the truth and aren’t living a lie like most.

Roleandah · 2023-11-13T11:15:25+00:00

This will all never end until it becomes absolutely standard to only date women who are front and center representing men's rights.

alyomushka · 2023-11-13T10:28:06+00:00

why calling someone "incel" without his permission is legal? Can I call someone "bitch"?

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2023-11-13T17:31:14+00:00

Focus on your purpose. Keep yourself active and fit. Develop your career. Go to the gym. Develop your hobbies and interests. Become the best you that you can be.

RepeatMyNameBro · 2023-11-13T17:49:48+00:00

My advice is to go travel my good man. Leave where you are at. Is not like this everywhere you go.

Famous_Obligation959 · 2023-11-13T07:44:17+00:00

How are you getting into political conversations so often?
I work and socialise near women and politics almost never comes up. They talk about life, dating, each other, films, and so on, but never heard them talk hard core geo-politics or of anything with deep meaning

illuminatirunsworld · 2023-11-13T11:36:26+00:00

Talk to guys in the real world. Reddit is far far removed from reality

Edit: Looking at your profile I see you're in Berkley california, that's another place where people tend to hold views far outside the mainstream in this country, leave if you can although I understand not everyone can just do this.

Japonica · 2023-11-13T16:10:11+00:00

You deserve to be happy. Find things you enjoy and focus on them for now. It's not fair for you to have to base your enjoyment of life on the opinions of those who treat you unfairly. Also, there are people out there who will treat you fairly; just know your self worth and don't let others make you feel like less of a human. Stay strong, my friend!

27andoldaf · 2023-11-13T16:25:57+00:00

The best thing that I think I did was to stop concerning myself with the politics of the world, I drew in my borders and focused on myself and my own self improvement, (starting about 8 years ago.) I still kept up with politics, and still argued my case and defended my views, the difference being that my own (and others') opinions weren't definitive of personality. I know it's an old cliche, but there is more that unites us than divides us and its possible to talk in a conversational and affable manner with the vast majority of people, whilst also distancing yourself from those with negative, extremist views. Being a man is tough, by definition it is hard as we're in an age where we're expected to conform to modern sensitivities whilst maintaining traditional roles/expectations etc. With regards to women, there are good people out there in the world, you just have to put yourself out there enough to find them , that goes for anyone and everyone, you'll be surprised how many people are willing to give you the time of day once you give it to them. I hope you don't feel hopeless and I hope that you can see the positives in life. I'm nowhere near perfect, I slip up, find myself in a hole, feel low and worthless from time to time, but I'm lucky enough to have found a good partner and good people who can help me see the light again.

9chars · 2023-11-13T20:23:13+00:00

Stop caring what other people think. Those people are awful people and no one should ever care what they think.

TenuousOgre · 2023-11-13T21:48:35+00:00

One of the healthiest things you can do is take the attitude that the only opinions you care about are from those you love. Beyond that an opinion tells you more about them (as a stranger) than it does about you.

DDsPLZ · 2023-11-13T21:53:17+00:00

Giving up on women (MGTOW) is the only way to win a game that's stacked against you where the end prize is someone who hates you.

Youcantkillme11 · 2023-11-14T08:07:27+00:00

Push ups bro

Hot-Bookkeeper5277 · 2023-11-13T12:10:59+00:00

Rate urself on a scale of 1-10 rq

Title	Feeling like giving up
Author	OpeningVermicelli405
Upvotes	70
Comments	25
Date	November 13, 2023 7:01 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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