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From a teen’s perspective

July 20, 2018

Hey guys,

I’m a 14 year old male and I graduated from eighth grade just a few months ago and I’d like to share my perspective here. Now I know this is mainly about what happens but sharing to the world what it is like to be a young man in middle school is important too.

So, first off when I was in seventh grade I had a crush on this girl, I’m not gonna share her name so why not call her, G? Ok so G and I were also friends and when she found out I liked her, she started to bully me and many of her friends caught on. So naturally, I quickly got over her and started to despise her. However, eighth grade is when things got bad. She basically tried to make me sound like a pervert when I wasn’t doing anything wrong. She started falsely accusing me of trying to watch the girls change when all I did was walk by the girls bathroom to get to the boys bathroom and I was five feet away from the bathroom and didn’t look in. She also kept saying I was stalking when I wasn’t as well.

Another thing is that she gave her friend my phone number and her friend started to yell at me saying I was a pervert and stuff; saying I’d stare at G’s ass when I didn’t even look at her often. She began to call my other male friends perverts as well and got them in trouble with the school. I was lucky enough to get out of it. But the false accusations kept coming. She said I made a fake Snapchat to stalk her(when I never did that) and teachers and faculty for the most part seemed to believe her simply because males are assumed to be perverts. G’s friends started to bully me more. She started making fun of what I said in class just because she didn’t understand the complexity of my point.

The thing is, simply because ie as a boy, girls called me a pervert and started to bully me and treat me like crap. I’m assuming it started because at first I liked G and maybe because I’m not a fucking Shawn Mendez. Girls just expect every guy to be perfect and d they aren’t, they bully them. Now this is just my experience and this is barely scratching the surface of the things she and her friends did to me. Also, I went to a small school(43 kids in my grade) so I couldn’t just avoid them.

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Title From a teen’s perspective
Author Lordkeravrium
Upvotes 6
Comments 12
Date July 20, 2018 6:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MensRights
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[–]tenchineuro 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Have you talked to your parents?

I think your parents need to talk to the school and express their concerns about this girl and what she's doing. If there is bullying involved they should demand that the school do something about it immediately.

I don't think there's much you can do by yourself.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. If this action continues and you have proof, you may be able to talk with a lawyer about going after the girl for libel/slander. I know we are talking early teens, but that might pressure on her parents to curb that behavior.

Now, you'll probably get some shit for involving a lawyer, but getting shit for getting a lawyer involved is better than getting slandered.

[–]-manatease 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry to hear what you're going through, it's tough being a teenager with so much immaturity surrounding you. If your parents/carers are cool, talk to them about it, plus your school guidance teacher, football/chess/scout leader. Get as many adults knowing what's really happening as possible.

You should also seriously think about training on a bag, doing MMA or something and getting stronger with weights. Use this as an opportunity to improve yourself physically and the strength you get from that will improve your mental strength and confidence.

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[–]Lordkeravrium[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is not about men being separate from women. This post is about what it’s like to be a middle school male and how some teachers have treated me and what they’ve let girls get away with

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Should've said don't talk to me if you're not into me.

[–]Lordkeravrium[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She didn’t need to talk to me to hurt me. Like I said, 43 kids in a grade is small as hell. Drama and gossip spread fast.

[–]mwobuddy 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Have you heard of the pecking order? One of the problems is that when a person becomes diminished, it is easier for the rest to diminish that person. Its like you start to display "kick me" signs in terms of your posture, your attitude, even your tone of speech or where your eyes look .Try to embody "holding frame" as the red pillers would call it. Its one of the few things that TRP gets stealing it from mainstream psychology. You have to look more confident than you feel, and not let it affect you. Its all you can really do to combat such behavior.

The last thing you want to do is show shame at being labeled something because that in itself is an indicator you actually ARe something, for why would you be ashamed of something you're not? Its silly human group psychology that's been played for thousands of years.

[–]mikesteane 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The redpillers have this right. Get fit and get looking fit and the whole dynamic will change in your favour.

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The point of fit and other things is as much that it flips on gene circuits which make you more attractive, but als othat accomplishing goals maeks you more confident and that's attractive. Its how you can be a shitbag wife beater and still get plenty of lays on the side because you think you're hot shit.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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