I absolutely get disgusted when I think about how my son has to grow up and accept being born into a world of misandry.

PlasticZestyclose454 · 2022-08-03T20:07:38+00:00

I understand your problem brother but the only thing we can do about it it's just teaching our children to do not be disgust of themselves

Empress_Clementine · 2022-08-04T00:47:34+00:00

Hopefully you are raising your son to have skills, develop his own interests and become his own person. When you don’t need #labels to feel validated in life, the attitudes of others can’t hurt you much.

SecondEldenLord · 2022-08-03T22:17:05+00:00

Teach yopur son how to be the best man he can be. Let him focus on himself, his hobbies, his needs and teach him the risks in society of being a man when he gets to teenage years or adulthood. He doesn't need to be afraid, just vigilent. We cannot do anything about the misandry my friend, it will always exist and it looks like it will get worse, so all we can do is adapt.

Adventurous_Ad_5822 · 2022-08-04T00:59:52+00:00

I am glad that there's others who are aware of how Men are being made to look and feel in social media,moves and everything in between. Thanks for all of your comments and support even the questionable ones lol

Algoresball · 2022-08-03T22:56:55+00:00

He doesn’t have to accept anything. Teach him to have respect for himself and not to associate with people sexist

MGTOW_and_Bitcoin · 2022-08-04T00:15:01+00:00

You see this is exactly why I believe our discrimination as men gives us the opportunity to understand the Discrimination of minority groups.

Imagine the similar sentiments that arise that mirror your own.

All of that said this is why there is a black pill philosophy and it's also why we have to invest more intellectual labor

Manux005 · 2022-08-03T23:34:50+00:00

This is what saddens me too. I'm only 16, and I'll have to live in this world for quite a while. I guess that's why I came here. I want to stay informed, so that I might one day make a difference. I try to talk about stuff like the posts on this sub with my friends, but they don't seem to care that the world we will be living in for the next 60 years has turned against us. It is truly saddening that my generation has to live in this Situation for so long, unless we change some things, and my generation doesn't even seem to care.

I want to thank you people. Before I came here I had no Idea how grave our issues are. Thank you for informing us.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2022-08-04T03:21:17+00:00

I know how you feel. My son is due to be born within the next two months, and I absolutely want to teach him to stand up for himself in a way that my well-intentioned and good-hearted but naive parents did not.

teh_chungus · 2022-08-03T23:31:57+00:00

best you can do is being a great father figure.

always remember there's young guys growing up without a father.

also don't have him circumcised and just teach proper hygiene at like 7 y.o.

2022-08-04T06:08:47+00:00

you are not alone

AchtzehnVonSchwefel · 2022-08-04T08:30:56+00:00

Bonk him with the meditations of Marcus Aurelius. Or Nahjul Balagha.

oflbtbs · 2022-08-03T20:57:33+00:00

There's always homeschooling and such.

TalkQuestionMark · 2022-08-03T20:05:06+00:00

Hi, I am interested in being able to speak to somebody about the issues men face, preferably a video call, or audio call. One of the things I am interested in, is this same issue you are speaking about here.

As a woman it is impossible for me to truly know how it feels to be a man growing up in this society.

I tried to make a post here, but it was deemed "not MRA related", maybe because I used a clickbaity title about feminism hoping somebody would click lel. Can I send you a DM about it?

Or anybody else interested, I am quite interested in an honest conversation.

traveller1976 · 2022-08-04T05:16:19+00:00

The key to survival is preparation. Empower him with a proper education on the dangers of modern women, enable him to avoid terrible mistakes in choosing mates, that's pretty much all you can do.

mechajutaro · 2022-08-04T12:52:21+00:00

We're all feeling the heat these days. I encourage to you to straighten your son, by share the following with him:

-We've been through a moral panic similar to the one we're in the grips of now, in the not too distant past https://archive.org/details/Radioutlaw-PlayboyColumnistAsaBaberMantalkInterviewPart1706-2 https://reason.com/1994/07/01/man-troubles/ https://www.baltimoresun.com/news/bs-xpm-1992-12-18-1992353029-story.html Yet, the world didn't come to an end*.... Hell, up until fairly recently, we went through a period in which feminist ideology was little more than background noise; even the pathetically Woke folks who run The Take have recognized as much https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBxgEIcMB6o&t=41s

-Human beings have triumphed in the face of rampant ignorance, bias, and antipathy comparable to what's today being aimed at men in the very recent past https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFVRRP-J9mI&t=1905s 11:10-17:28 What Rauch says here is equally true for men living in modern day America: While there are genuine bigots like Susan Danuata Walters out there, most hatred of men doesn't arise from ill-will towards men. It's the result of folks who abide by stale orthodoxies and ideas which are less than factualAs long as a substantial portion of the public believes that we're all rapists-waiting-to-happen and potential thugs who are a threat to their homes and businesses, they will hate us. Contrary to the patently brain dead excuse for a strategy that folks like Paul Elam have been espousing("Vote with your feet!!! Retreat from society, spend most of your waking hours on social media griping about the unfairness ol life, and pretend that this makes you more clever/Red Pill than all the rest of those mere Norm-ies who you share the planet with"), the way forward is going to be for us to go out into our communities and neighborhoods, for the express purpose of demonstrating that all those virulent stereotypes about men are complete falsehoods

*Since it's very inception, The MRM has had a strong millenarian bent, the likes of which rivals the sort of doom and gloom mongering one typically associates with environmentalism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLxZF_EWaLE&t=681s 0:00-11:00 Just replace Bill McKibben with Paul Elam, and Greta Thunberg with Karen Straughan or Alyson Tieman. As Shellenberger points out, when one reads the writings of MRAs and eco-warriors then walks away depressed, yet reads Mandela's Long Walk To Freedom or Juan Williams's Thurgood Marshall: American Revolutionary and walks away strengthened.... Well, this raises questions as to just how psychologically beneficial and productive the current iterations of Environmentalism and The MRM really are

que_seraaa · 2022-08-04T14:42:58+00:00

I'm going to pray for your sons.

Just ask for prayers in return because God knows I need them now more than ever.

ElectricalRule6572 · 2022-08-04T17:46:26+00:00

Imagine you telling someone that there are people who get a TON of money for EXISTING cause men desire them.

pacsatonifil · 2022-08-07T03:53:07+00:00

It will be ok so long as you are there for him and show him how you are doing well. We have great examples in history of the incredible contributions by many men. I know it may seem in modern media it can get like that, but it’s 2022 and the internet gives us access to all sorts of media. Not all is misandrist.

Redditsucks_________ · 2022-08-04T01:08:13+00:00

"What, teaching young boys not to rape? What a big deal". Actual response I got in this sub regarding this issue

Authorwannabe69 · 2022-08-04T06:17:09+00:00

Mirroring the rest of the comments. The best thing we can do is to teach our boys that they have value, that they don't have to chase it all their lives because they already have it. Teach them that failure is OK and valuable.

The state of the worlds misandry won't matter to a generation of men who have nothing to prove

nomdeprune · 2022-08-04T06:44:22+00:00

I've been surprised in the past when I've heard mothers of sons spouting misandrist propaganda. I'm less surprised now, and more sad for those boys growing up in that environment. I'm no psychologist, but it seems to me it can't be good for those boys to hear those sentiments from within their own family.

Jiggiy · 2022-08-04T05:40:41+00:00

I pray if I have a child it's a boy

I also hopes he takes after me and is even more alpha.

Jakeybaby125 · 2022-08-04T08:06:36+00:00

Calm down, for that you need to find a partner, which is highly unlikely.

AdditionalAd1402 · 2022-08-04T07:00:01+00:00

Don’t worry, I don’t think any woman would want to have sex with you, let alone have a child with you

jackingOFFto · 2022-08-04T13:39:59+00:00

You are ex ante relieving yourself of the responsibility of raising him right.

"Oooh it's this bad world's fault that my son is a self hating loser"

IHCUWFN · 2022-08-03T21:23:17+00:00

Teach your son to not be "those men" and he will have 0 issues with misandry.

2022-08-18T05:29:00+00:00

What world do you live on? Go outside and speak to people, spend some time out of the house, touch grass.

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