I Hate My Life

guintoo · 2019-10-17T19:52:33+00:00

Please dont do that. Push through it. Love yourself self first please.

If you need anyone to talk to just message me I'll be here for you

gnulligan · 2019-10-18T03:38:56+00:00

Marry a foreigner.

I hate saying it, but you're right. I gave up too, but then I met my wife from South America. She's the most kind, empathetic person I've ever met. Her goal in life is to fight against circumcision.

Girls in the US are literally told that peeling the skin off a baby is fine so long as the victim is a boy. And who cares if over 200 babies die every year from it? They're just boys, and their suffering is worth it so long as it fulfills my fetish 🤢 Of course the girls here are fucking insane.

Find one from a non-crazy culture, like China/Japan/Russia/South America. Avoid Koreans, British, Indians and Americans. European girls are a gamble.

Just to make sure we're clear, race has nothing to do with it. India and Korea were historically occupied by the UK and America, and that's why they turned into feminist hellholes.

Cthulhuwhoopsie · 2019-10-17T20:25:37+00:00

I love it: I out myself put there in an honest fashion, and someone downvoted the post.

Typical.

Niki_Biryani · 2019-10-18T00:00:28+00:00

Maybe set aside goals that have nothing to do with women and just invest all your time achieving those goals. You are right, women nowadays are pretty self-centered and narcissistic. They get all the validation they want and, therefore, no incentive to improve. You will realize that life gets better once you have better goals and you invest all your time and attention on those goals.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-10-17T22:32:48+00:00

>I'm not sure I want to live

>most of the women that have been part of my life....

Women are a PART of life, and they can be a very small one at that. Women are not life. Do not equate them with life or, by extension, with reasons to live or die. Your wants and desires are understandable, but instead of killing yourself you should take the time to look beyond them and see what else life has to offer.

Start by taking a month off. No projects, no commitments, no thinking about women or any issues. Do the absolute bare minimum to get by (basically just work or school) and spend the rest of the time focused on just having fun. Taking a vacation from life helps you reset your brain.

After that, take a year off from just women. Not as friends, not as dates, the only women you interact with more than necessary are the ones you have no choice to and family that you like. Pick two to three other things to focus on. Fitness?? Writing that novel?? Investing in your male friendships??

Do this for a year. When life gets you down you need to remind yourself that it takes a long time to achieve your goals and some days are going to feel like you just pushed a boulder up a hill that is just going to roll back down. This is why meditation is important. Turning off your electronics and distractions and just taking five minutes a day to just breathe and re-orient yourself is key.

In one year you will know whether or not you should die.

dovakin123489 · 2019-10-18T17:48:55+00:00

You see the secret to happiness is not having a dick. If you got one chop it off.

striving2bgr8 · 2019-10-17T20:16:53+00:00

R/MGTOW

Welcome brother

tenchineuro · 2019-10-17T21:09:27+00:00

I want genuine, deep affection from a woman I can contend with. It's all I've ever wanted. From my experience, I'm not sure this generation of women are capable of anything but narcissism.

Luckily I have very little to do with that generation of women. Unfortunately, hypegamy rules, and when women learn that they can profit from doing what is plainly wrong, watch out. That being said, there are still some traditional women in the provinces of various countries. A first world salary makes you attractive in that context. But even then you need to be careful. I read of a german fellow who married a filipina and all went well until one day she absconded with his life savings and left him to take care of 4 children with no money. He was begging on the streets in the philippines.

Man_Frame_YouTube · 2019-10-18T00:21:15+00:00

Take it on the positive side: now you know exactly what you want and what you don't want.

EphemeralWitness · 2019-10-18T00:21:40+00:00

Kind and genuine people are one in a million. Never give up on being you, I know it hurts now but I know you can make it through.

Don’t ever let this world corrupt you the way it has many other men and women.

Lethn · 2019-10-17T22:06:07+00:00

Killing yourself will achieve nothing, all that will happen is the people who are making your life miserable will either dance on your graves or just move on as if you never existed in the first place. The best thing to do is just make sure that people like that can't enter into your life in the first place. No I'm not talking about MTGOW because believe it or not their are decent women out there it's a matter of ridding yourself of the cunts in your life generally.

DougDante · 2019-10-18T02:14:22+00:00

Don't do it.

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

1LegendaryWombat · 2019-10-18T08:49:12+00:00

Don't take your life. I'm in a very similar boat, and the boat sucks, but there are good women out there.

Most times the right road is the most difficult. Just make sure you keep your health, mental and otherwise, a priority, as your relationship should not define you.

Keep looking, as we all do, and we'll succeed, eventually.

dontpet · 2019-10-18T08:52:01+00:00

Hi dude. I've met some nasty women and some good ones.

Those good ones are out there. See if you have a pattern in yourself bringing in the bed ones.

I went thru a bad run of women. After that I learned what I needed to to not do that again. Then found a delightful women.

That woman tells me the stuff I learned on the previous ones is what holds her in check. When I think she is crossing a line I call her on it.

And she tells me those experiences are a bonus to her as well because I really appreciate her kindness.

Keep going dude. You can do this.

DISOBEDIENCEBITCHES · 2019-10-18T09:36:00+00:00

It's tough... the contract between the sexes has been thrown over board.

Finding a suitable partner today is very difficult, especially since women are incentivized to change the provider every couple of years.

But all isn't lost. There are good women out there. But if you search for them you will not find them.

If you keep searching for yourself, though, she may just show up. After a long period of patience.

AskingToFeminists · 2019-10-18T10:30:04+00:00

The first step is to love yourself, to be comfortable with yourself. Then you are capable of going for a good relationship if you still want one.

Now, I don't know about the US, but here in France, I regularly meet good women. One of my colleague had never even heard about gender. You also have to know where to look. Such women may be rare, but you can find some.

But as I said, the first step is to take care of yourself. If most of the women in your life have mistreated you, you need to heal, and you need to learn to identify what you want, what is healthy behavior, what your values are, and how to stand up for them. When you are an independent adult, you have the ability to walk out at any time, but you need to be able to detect the red flags telling you it's time for doing so, and to dare do it. And to detect what is just something needing you to put things straight according to your values.

So the largest part of the work rests on your shoulders. Once you have done this work, finding a woman that can become a suitable mate is just a matter of looking hard enough. But without that work, even if you found one, you might still carry disfunction that will have things repeat themselves and go awry.

The positive thing about it : it's in your control. You can do it. Small step by small step if need be, but it's very doable.

Uruke · 2019-10-19T07:59:10+00:00

Learning how to recieve love and affection from YOURSELF can go a long way.

Go take yourself somewhere nice to eat.

Watch a film at the theater.

Go for contemplative walks.

Talk to yourself like how you'd talk to a good friend.

Title	I Hate My Life
Author	Cthulhuwhoopsie
Upvotes	35
Comments	23
Date	October 17, 2019 7:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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