When you tell someone about the unfair/unjust treatment of men, someone would say something like "But XYZ has it worse!". Even if they do, even if the statistics are right, why does it matter? Even if 90% of women are victims of something and 10% of men are a victim of the same thing, both are still victims of the same situation. They should get as much help as the majority.

Here's an example (on a smaller scale). Let's suppose a mother has 2 sons. One got a headache and the other broke his leg. It's true that the mother might focus on the son with an injured leg more. Like taking him to the hospital, taking care of his leg. But she wouldn't ignore her other son by saying something like "But your brother has it worse!". She will also give the pain meds to the other son too.

(I don't know if a similar term already exists. But in this situation, I thought the term fits.)