This didn't happen to me. It's on another sub. I suggested the guy repost it. He refused. My suggestion got downvoted over 30 times, because men aren't entitled to rights, evidently.

I quote:

So I am generally referred as an attractive man. I like to think I'm an attractive man. My boyfriend says I have "the finest ass this side of the equator".

I'm a bartender at a bar with a pretty prominent ladies night, and I can flirt with the best of them. Its kindof an expectation of the job for some of the girls to flirt. It makes me feel good and it makes them feel good to be doted over, it also feels good to get fat tips from it. I've had a couple instances of grab-ass and while it bothers me a little bit, I know I've set myself up for it by being a flirt.

Anyway, cue the ladies night from hell. This was about 4 months ago. I've got everyone at the bar taken care of, so I go around a little bit to some of the tables just milking those tips for me and the two girls I was working with(we split tips and they'd do the same for guys. As a team we averaged 300 each on good nights). When I come upon a group of three middle aged soccer mom types, they are hammered, blitzed, straight up drunk. I ask them how their night is going and I regretted that immediately. Lets call their ringleader R.

Me: So how're y'all ladies tonight.

R: looks me up and down Even better now that you're here hon. cue manic giggling from the whole group

Me: Well ain't that a fine thing to know from you three young ladies. Try not to draw too much attention, might be forced to ask for those I.D.'s

I walk off to go back to the bar and she pulls me back BY THE WAISTBAND.

R: I didnt say you could leave hon.

In the mean time she grabs my butt and squeezes . A little as I'm walking by is one thing, but this is just creepy then I see her other hand reaching for my crotch. I somehow manage to get away and decide to leave the harpies to the girls. A few minutes pass and I'm stressed so I decide it's high time for a smoke break. I signal one of the girls(lets call her Jill) and tell her what happened as I'm digging through my bag.

Jill: Are you serious!?

Me: Yeah, straight up yanked me back and went for the full course.

Jill: Want me to cut her off?

Me: If you would, Ima dip into the alley and smoke anything comes up call Rich(our bouncer).

I leave the bar to her and go out. Im sitting on a old chair we have outside savoring this cigarette and I hear R and her cronies exiting and I start to relax. Until R walks by the alley and sees me. I dont know why I didnt sit behind the dumpster but whats done is done, and now shes coming for me.

R: Hello gorgeous! she walks up way too close to me You know... My husbands out of-

Me: Im gonna stop you right there. One: I dont like the fact that you just grabbed all up on me like I'm a fucking showpiece, and I want you to leave me alone. Two: Im not helping you cheat on your fucking husband

Now she gets all kinds of indignant

R: Whats your problem!? You should be happy I want to sleep with you!

Me: You're my problem. Im a bartender, not a stripper or a hooker. Not to mention I have a boyfriend-

I dont know where it came from or how she got it out so quickly but she fucking pepper sprayed me! She yelled a couple insults(the word fag came up a couple times) and walked off. I stumble back in and start rinsing my face and Jill comes back to find me with the sprayer aimed at my face. I explained what happened and she called the cops.

To cut the rest short R got arrested and was permanently banned from quite a few bars in town.

TL;DR- Grabby soccer mom pepper sprayed me when I wouldnt agree to sleep with her

Edit: https://np.reddit.com/r/TalesFromYourServer/comments/5q7lx9/the_ladies_night_from_hell/