Whenever we discuss problems affecting groups in general—women, for example—they are almost automatically framed as systemic failures of society as a whole, the blame easily being placed on broad structures, cultures and even the average person who is only living their life. Well, except if you're a man because something something "male privilege" or "men aren't systematically oppressed"

You don't have to look that hard, a basic scroll through any social media platform—even on threads not specifically about this topic—will eventually bring you posts that frame this crisis as the individual failing of men, going from rethorics like "men just need to learn to socialize and behave like decent human beings" to straight up "skill issue" and even to people explicitly or implicitly painting women as a eugenic filter of some mystical natural selection weeding out "undesirable" males

This idea that women collectively share a supernatural lens granted by the All-Powerful Mother Nature is itself sexist, reducing women to a biological monolith and straight up putting them in a pedestal, yet it seems people are perfectly willing to shove their own principles aside if it means getting a chance to strike a blow against the omnipresent, all-powerful Patriarchy—which, in these discussions, is bizarrely represented by every individual lonely or struggling man. On a related note, even Jordan Peterson share the idea that woman = nature and even Dr. K with the social Darwinism of natural selection

Idek where or how to properly react at the way so many people see no problem in using victim-blaming, sexism, scientific sexism, Social Darwinism, and eugenicist ideas when the subject is men's suffering, almost like they've had it all under their sleeves