Resentment

Ambitious_League4606 · 2025-07-06T16:47:54+00:00

Don't base your existence, self esteem or identity around what random females think, or anyone thinks for that matter. Improve for you. Then you'll develop peace of mind and confidence.

alter_furz · 2025-07-06T16:17:59+00:00

Hating means emotionally engaging. Same as liking, admiring, etc.

Do not engage. Simple.

AVoiceInTheDarkn3ss · 2025-07-06T16:16:48+00:00

This is why MGTOW is so important. You don't NEED to be in a relationship or have a female companion to be happy. Sure, it's nice when it happens and it works out, but its a very rare occurrence, especially in certain areas.

Focus on you. Get in shape, work a good job, get involved in charity work and find a hobby you might like. You can be single and successful and enjoy life.

Responsible-Plant573 · 2025-07-06T16:55:27+00:00

I find it interesting that if a woman hates men in general, people will bend over backwards to justify her grievances but if a man hates women in general, he’s scolded and told that no amount of bad personal experiences justifies hating even individual women. Why is it??

BeardedBill86 · 2025-07-06T19:02:26+00:00

Stop caring, literally just live your life and leave them to it. They're nice to play with, occasionally to talk to, but if they're causing you more headache than not just put your energies elsewhere.

Shuuuuuuush369420 · 2025-07-06T17:27:52+00:00

I deal with it by understanding that I don’t need to be resentful or hateful about things out of my control… I accept my fate and I choose to be good to people because when I die alone, I will die knowing I did the right thing 🤷‍♂️ I’ve done the whole resenting and hating thing, didn’t like who I was!

OddRemove2000 · 2025-07-06T17:42:32+00:00

Options. As soon as I realized I could retire early to the Philippines at 45~, I became much happier. All the years of hard work, being better to try to attract a woman, all seemed like a waste, and I was angry.

Now? I'm relaxed cuz working, saving money, being frugal for 20 years is easy, its doable, my hard work directly translates to results of earlier retirment. I LOVE working towards an achievable goal.

And by the time Im 45, if I want to go MGTOW I can.

lavampire88 · 2025-07-06T17:02:58+00:00

I think the "uglier" guys might have more confidence or more social skills/charisma. It's not just about being conventionally attractive but how you hold yourself too. Don't engage or give it much thought. Find a hobby or multiple hobbies. Focus on yourself in every aspect. Build your own self-confidence.

No_Treacle_1461 · 2025-07-06T17:50:36+00:00

I don't resent females just FEMENAZIS

VladTheBanned · 2025-07-06T17:18:26+00:00

Try to make friends with women. Start with older women and less attractive ones - women you are not romantically interested in. Try to think of them as bros if it makes it easier.

wumbo-inator · 2025-07-07T05:14:54+00:00

Hang out with women of high moral character. I used to volunteer with nuns and they were 1000x better people than I was.

Keep in mind a bunch of software engineers and corporate suits have conspired against you to keep you in a constant state of outrage and there’s a good chance that their algorithms, along with maybe you self-selecting what to read about and concern yourself with, has put you in this constant state of outrage. Your perception of reality is probably heavily warped by this.

WeEatBabies · 2025-07-06T22:22:18+00:00

Morning Gym, powerlifting 5x5!

Evening gym, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu!

Go get an aprendiceship or job training, aim to make as much money as possible.

Buy house outside city.

You will be shown interest!

Cultural_South_2459 · 2025-07-06T16:36:07+00:00

i'm not too sure, but maybe if you spent time with nice, genuine women, you'd realise that you no longer resent them. i assume you resent them because of how women have treated you, so if you find that not all women are toxic, you'll hate them less. and therapy is also an option (though i understand that it's not an option for everyone).

dougpschyte · 2025-07-06T16:21:31+00:00

The root cause of the misandry exhibited by females is Ressentiment.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ressentiment

Fit-Commission-2626 · 2025-07-06T17:36:14+00:00

in a way and perhaps many ways in fact resentment on the part of males not only towards women but especially society makes a lot of sense but i also do not think to be fair to them their often intentionally trying to hurt males but they live in a society where anti male ideas and behavior has not only become accepted or even embraced but literally part of the culture and a significant part and is why any attempt at supporting male rights without fundamentally changing the culture and changing the gender roles is futile and pointless and maybe even counter productive.

petrichorandcamphor · 2025-07-07T18:25:07+00:00

This shit is unbelievably hard, man. It takes constant processing of your negative emotions and practice of mindfulness. You have to identify and validate your own internal emotional experiences of fear, anger, disgust, etc. and recognize the key drivers of those feelings. Then it helps to intellectualize what occurred and mentalize with them to help you guess at and understand their own internal experience and what drove their behavior. Then you need to recontextualize the impact or importance of this event in your life. And then you need to confront your own values and recommit yourself to engaging in behaviors which are in line with them. And then when you’re in that situation again you need to try to stay mindful of your values and your long-term goals and let that help guide your decisions. This is just one approach. Therapists can be like coaches for this stuff, but they can also be incredibly biased, so you need a good one.

In a nutshell, try to treat yourself like your best friend. Think of what you want in life and how you can productively get it. Avoid negative people and their thoughts and opinions. It is a wild experience when you realize for the first time that forgiving someone else is a gift you give yourself. It means you don’t have to hold that negative energy anymore. It’s also wild when you realize that being kind and gentle with other people just makes you like yourself more. A lot of the behavior we see people engage in which looks altruistic is actually genuinely rewarding to the person doing it. If you build love for yourself then others will follow. And it’s really hard to love yourself when you’re busy resenting others.

Logical-Ad-5669 · 2025-07-12T19:41:01+00:00

Maybe go to therapy? Not telling what to do obviously but no harm in talking about your feelings, men are allowed to have feelings of course and you possibly seem adverse because of your childhood? Also not everything is about looks.

Also it is good to keep in mind you are not entitled to women just as how they are not entitled to you- so maybe for you resentment falls in the space of you thinking (through society or your own mind) that you must be with a women long term which isn’t true and you can be perfectly happy on your own.

Goodluck man hope you become less resentful because that hurts the soul and festers! And that ain’t not fun!!

free_man_812 · 2025-07-06T17:35:26+00:00

You guys embarrass our gender with posts like this

NCC-1701-1 · 2025-07-06T16:39:25+00:00

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griii2 · 2025-07-06T23:17:04+00:00

There are tons of amazing women in the lives of your fellow men's rights activists. Our mothers, wives, daughters. If you resent them just for their gender then you don't belong here. We do not hate people based on their gender.

TutorFancy3672 · 2025-07-07T00:44:03+00:00

If women aren’t able to make decisions for themselves haven’t we done our part?

imextremelymoderate · 2025-07-06T17:53:10+00:00

Women deserve countries that cater to them. As a man you can choose to live in a country that is more equal, or even favors men

Title	Resentment
Author	Apprehensive-Alps279
Upvotes	90
Comments	64
Date	July 6, 2025 4:11 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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