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Shocking moment screaming three-year-old boy is bound to a staircase by his cruel mother after her ex-husband missed £114 child support payment

JohnKimble111

November 16, 2017

386 upvotes

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Title	Shocking moment screaming three-year-old boy is bound to a staircase by his cruel mother after her ex-husband missed £114 child support payment
Author	JohnKimble111
Upvotes	386
Comments	65
Date	November 16, 2017 8:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7db6pp/shocking_moment_screaming_threeyearold_boy_is/
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I believe for the most part child support is a good thing, it’s just unfortunate that there are a minority of cruel people out there that abuse it.

There is no mechanism to determine what is or isn't abused. None what-so-ever. If it is, you have very little ability to get the system to care.

My ex bought speed with what I paid. When that money ran out, she made kiddie porn with one of our kids to buy more.

I didn't know about the drugs, but I knew there was a problem. I was paying 2400 a month, the kid's shoes were falling apart. I got told "go buy them yourself", but I was flat fucking broke from paying my support obligations. The system didn't care, told me to fuck off and stop being a nuisance. I couldn't do anything, for my own kids, and the system laughed at me. That's family law and children's services in my state. Absolute shit-stains.

That's the counterpoint. Sure it can work, when the parents aren't assholes. When one of them is, it doesn't work at all. Maybe there should be >some< guidelines? Some test of success? Anything at fucking all?

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According to reports, the average cost of raising a child for 18 years is more or less $300,000. If my math is correct, that's $16,000 a year, and $1,300 a month. The average child support payment is $430 a month.

Logically, it's not hard to see that most people who receive child support aren't saying "Woo hoo! More cash for me!" and then going out to buy crack while their kids starve. Most people need that money to help with bills and necessities.

And I can't say that I'm against a person spending a little money buying themselves something nice with the extra money after spending $1,300 of their own money to care for their child. If the kid is taken care of and has everything they need, why must we insist that a parent not spend any money on themselves and instead buy more things for the kid?

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