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[–]pretendmynameiscool_1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Swipe left and move on, because that is a red flag already
[–]Same-Machine121 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
It's good when they display the red flags on the first thing you see. Saves time.
[–]TrickleDownWokeness 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For real. It’s better seeing this shit right up front so no one wastes their time.
[–]W_S_V 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And money
[–]NutsLikeMelons 74 points75 points76 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Give it a few years and it will be “Where are all the good men?”
[–]TDH49[S] 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahahaha You betcha
[–]_Denzo 36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So if a man said this about women he’d be cancelled
[–]Ok-Translator2294 56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
This is probably why men pay for prostitutes.
If you're only looking for sex then it saves you time, effort, and ironically; money!
[–]wanderloop99 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best value for money
[–]TDH49[S] 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, luckily in my country it’s not very common as we are not fully western
Only our big cities are western-like, the rest of the country are small citys/villages and religious
[+][deleted] -50 points-49 points-48 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Good? Why do some men think they’re entitled to sex… That’s what we call incels
[–]Ok-Translator2294 34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I thought incels were those who didn't have sex due to factors they cannot control. Also, what part of the comment makes you conclude that men think they are entitled to sex?
[+][deleted] -38 points-37 points-36 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
No, and you sad it saves more time an effort to buy sex instead of literal just forming relationships ?
[–]Ok-Translator2294 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
And that's entitlement? Someone's selling, men are buying. It's a simple transaction.
Why form a relationship when you're only looking for sex? I'd say that's worse than buying it.
[+][deleted] -36 points-35 points-34 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why does your reasoning for me paying for sex include average woman not just giving it to men :/ like .. yeah it takes less time and effort and money . Because that’s what dating is …..
[–]Ok-Translator2294 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not everyone who wants(wants does not mean feel entitled to) sex is interested in dating.
Why go through the extra steps?
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You seem to misunderstand, we don’t want sex. They mentioned prostitues because of the guys who want sex just opt for them. Most guys who don’t date just don’t date, at all. We don’t pay for prostitues and we don’t feel entitled to other people’s time. We opted to not date because women feel entitled to us and our time and frequently get mad at us in relationships if we don’t cater to their whims.
I broke up with my last girlfriend for this exact reason she would get mad at me if I didn’t text her while i was busy at work even though I called her pretty much everyday after work anyway. Entitlement has no gender and we need to start calling women like that are posted here. Women feel entitled to guys dating them even if they deserve nothing from them, it’s time women start calling out toxic femininity so everyone can start improving the dating pool and other social issues.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So because you had an ex that was clingy. This means all woman are entitled 🤨 this rlly ain’t helping but thanks ig
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your intentional misunderstanding is a testament to your character and listening skills. I severely hope for your own sake that you find the help you need and learn to acknowledge when someone wants to bring about change WITHOUT trying to single out any 1 particular demographic.
[–]TrickleDownWokeness 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
saves more time an effort to buy sex instead of literal just forming relationships ?
I mean….. yes? Forming relationships and dating is difficult (for everyone, not just men). Relationships take TONS of work.
[–]ABeeBox 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's a difference between casual sex and a relationship, no one is going to turn up to a prostitute for a relationship.
[–]ABeeBox 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No one said men are entitled to sex? If a man wants to go on a date for casual sex, what's wrong with that? Women do it all the time + even more commonly, women do it for free meals.
[–]Lightning77Plus 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How am I supposed to believe you're one of the baddies if you can't even afford your own meal?
That's not very boss bitch of you.
[–]Magical-Hummus 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Not very boss bitch" hahaha this one is good
[–]Nihilistnigg 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"feminist but I still think a man should always pay especially on the first date"
You literally cant make this shit up
It's become pretty common;
"Strong and Independent" but also depend on alimony, child benefits (understandable within the context of the child, absurd when "to support the life style of the mother" becomes and argument"), all the men doing hard labour jobs, working in an office but the women look to you for help when it's to lift heavy boxes, "entrepreneur" but only on Onlyfans, the list is endless.
[–]AspirationsOfFreedom 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I want a manly man to do the traditional stuff that benefits me.
I also wanna be progressive and have every boon that brings me.
I also want a progressive boyfriend who want me for more than sex.
But dont expect me to play the part, or i'll call you insecure."
Bruh.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
run dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun
[–]TDH49[S] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I laughed way too hard at this😂😂😂😂
[–]NarutoBoy87 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminism but you pay for me.. 😂 how stupid are these people..
[–]_BlueShark87 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro she’s just contradicting herself here
[–]TDH49[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah exactly
[–]Magical-Hummus 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Welcome to feminism and progressiveness.
[–]_BlueShark87 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah yes, the magic of wokeness
[–]B1uefalc0n 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So she wants someone smart and geeky but be able to deal with the confrontations a bad girl goodluck with that smart people dont go out with stupid people.
A progressive feminist but the guy should have to pay... Thats not cherry picking at all... Her entire ideal of a guy she wants is a single contradiction. The absurdity is a more fitting titel.
[–]Technical-Tradition7 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I stopped looking at dating sites, and the biggest thing I was offended about during my time there was this assumption the women had that every single guy on the site was in there to get laid. The feminists are slowly convincing women that men are just emotionless sex machines. These feminists create the problem themselves too since they want to date you not sleep with you but refuse any gentlemanly gesture or consider you weak for daring to be romantic. There are of course good women out, lots of them, but it isn't those affirmation-hungry feminists on dating apps
[–]Magical-Hummus 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Feministic and progressive", "Should pay for meals"
Glad that she has proven that feminism hasn't made any meaningful progress at all.
[–]matrixislife 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Men should always pay for the first date, because they won't want to come back for a second."
[–]Over_Ad_7654 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feministic and progressive but I think a man should always have to pay
The fucking entitlement
[–]elebrin 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Heh. The first two things on her list of likes are booze and food. I guarantee she is overweight or obese.
I'd swipe left simply because I don't drink and I don't do bars and clubs.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She may not be overweight or obese but she definitely is not a catch even if she is attractive. Her personality is stinky and her mindset is too.
[–]elebrin 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lots of women will say they are feminist and progressive, but you have to observe their behaviors to determine if they actually are or not.
I'm more worried that drinking, weed, and TV are the most concrete examples of "hobbies" we have from this person. This is someone mostly driven by passive consumption. I doubt she has ever created anything of value in her entire life. I'd expect a picture to be of an overweight couch potato physique.
Lol that is valid, I know that a lot of these people who demand lots from others have little to nothing in the sense of a personality.
[–]Plenty_Algae_998 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok so she drinks, smokes weed, doesn’t want kids, has dogs (probably not well taken care of), likes smart and geeky, but can’t handle insecure or “lame” (already singling out so many options), is an independent woman yet still want men to pay and if we’re in a relationship, to “treat her like the queen she is. This one is a hard pass from me man
[–]needalife94 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Huge red flag. Hopefully she doesn't get any matches.
[–]CEBA_nol 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's good that these people always make sure to give themselves up at the first glance
"progressive for me, but not for thee!"
[–]YesAmAThrowaway 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Insecure boys who can't handle baddies" = "I'm an emotionally abusive ass and of that bothers you, go away."
Gladly
[–]Accomplished-Foot1231 points 3 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Indeed, a true feminist!
[–]TDH49[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Nah man, she ain’t a feminist, she’s a hypocrite. And we should remember that. Just like we want ourselves to not be looked at as incels, we shouldn’t generalize all feminists as misandrist. I have multiple self described feminist friends, who disagree with me on a lot of issues, but we agree that both men and women have their hardships, both need attention from the media. And we can agree to disagree respectfully from time to time. Don’t become your enemy!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was being sarcastic but unfortunately it was a porrly made comment!😬
I agree with you. I know a lot of women who has a egalitarian view and understands Men's issues and calls themselves feminists.
Thank you for your correction!👍
[–]TDH49[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ahh, my bad for missing the sarcasm lol Not so good with written sarcasm😅
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it's difficult for everyone to understand written sarcasm because, well, there isn't a sarcastic tone!
[–]TDH49[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
May be Haha
[–]CawlinAlcarz 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Prediction: She's 40 lbs overweight (not in and of itself a terrible thing), with a body count that looks like the white pages.
(for you folks too young to remember the phone book, here's a picture:quality(70)/arc-anglerfish-arc2-prod-tronc.s3.amazonaws.com/public/JFDIZSQW45EXREH6OONJAROAT4.jpg))
[–]Buckyohare84 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a looser!
[–]Terrible_Terrance -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What's the issue?
[–]TDH49[S] 31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"feministic and progressive" but "a man should pay on the first date"
just hypocrisy.
[–]Terrible_Terrance 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, I didn't see that part, pic was frozen..but yikes....
[–]poopyroadtrip 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally, I think there are tons of professional women out there willing to split the check or trade off on who pays the bill. Not worth the waste of time
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