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[–]FlaggedAss 202 points203 points204 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Time to celebrate my father. June 21st, I won’t forget.
[–]Hothotoro 64 points65 points66 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was scrolling through IG stories and saw this one girl post "Happy Father's Day" on the 14th and I got a mini panic attack because I forgot to greet my dad lol
[–]FrankSavage420 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you made your construction paper cutout card for him yet?
[–]FlaggedAss 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well what else would I do, use real paper?
[–]FrankSavage420 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only if you’re a bad son
[–]Bodonnabhain 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree 👍
[–][deleted] 95 points96 points97 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Please ladies. A single day of celebration. Lena Dunham: this means you and all of your man-hating friends.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣
[–]bopbeepboopbeepbop 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also Lena Dunham: rapes sister
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoa she's still around?
[–][deleted] 66 points67 points68 points 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
If you guys want a great father's day movie to see with your kids, I highly recommend Guardians of the Galaxy 2. On the surface it's a pretty generic popcorn flick with some fun action/comedy but the movie's ending is so touching and really drives home just how far a father will go for their child. Really appreciate James Gunn for tackling the subject of celebrating your father in such a mainstream movie because we don't see it nearly enough in entertainment/Hollywood.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Life is Beautiful would be another.
[–]illegalAmericano 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
add The Pursuit of Happyness (2006) to that list.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If Life is Beautiful is the gold medal of a father enduring hard shit with his son, The Pursuit of Happiness is silver.
Honorable mention to The Road--both the movie and the book.
[–]illegalAmericano 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah!!! The Road is a great one too.
Now that i remember, i would like to submit A Better Life (2011) to that list. Its another great one about the sacrifices a father makes to build (as the title suggests) a better life for him and his rebellious teenage son. A huge wrench gets thrown into the protagonists way that brings him & his son closer. Together they tackle the obstacle that life has put in front of them. Fasten your seatbelts & have tissues ready because this film takes you on a emotional roller coaster 🎢
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never saw it. I'll add that to the list! Cheers!
[–]PrimeWolf88 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My dad enjoyed Human Centipede
[–]nessfkrz 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would have to agree moreso with Life is Beautiful. Guardians 2 is great and has a dynamic cast and all, but it is nowhere near the level of LiB. LiB has the most intense themes of loving through hardship in any movie I've ever seen.
[–]theeduardocool 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s the reason Guardians of the Galaxy 2 is my favorite mcu movie. It’s just so emotional and it shows how dads really try their best with the tools they’re handled with.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
my favorite too :)
[–]boxsterguy 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also Onward.
[–]Secariel 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gifted is another good one.
[–]DarkStar0129 49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link
Father's day is an overwhelming experience for me. Like, I grew up without caring about father's day as I didn't have a father at home (courtesy of my mother), now that I'm living with my father and this is the first father's day in witnessing with him, I'm lost about what I can do.
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Get him a card and a gift, we like that 😂
[–]DarkStar0129 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
That's the hard part due to quarantine. My pockets are dry, and I can't go and buy anything right now.
[–]Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That's okay, firstly make sure you tell him Happy Father's day. Perhaps ask him about any happy memories he has of his father? Learn a bit about the family history. Men don't get to tell their stories often so he may like that. Also, you could try cooking dinner for the day. Perhaps plan a walk you two could d go on? Do something simple but take a photo of you two together so you can share in the memory. Promise the next year will be as good if not better. Tell him you love him (if it's applicable)
[–]DarkStar0129 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Uhhh we don't have that sort of relationship with him, calling him 'dad' our a synonym is awkward to me. All of this will 100% be akward for him too. I'll have to think of something myself I guess.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro you're asking for help and there are some really good suggestions here! One thing you can do is just write him a quick note saying, "Happy Fathers Day, thanks for all your help!!" Ok take care bro, good luck!
[–]DarkStar0129 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah some of them have given me insight about what I have to do, and they'll help for sure. Thanks for the wishes!
[–]jaw0012 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would start by asking him today "Dad, I want to do something with you on Father's Day. Is there something that you would like to do that we could do together?"
He already knows the financial situation. And I'll bet he comes up with something that you might not have thought of. A long walk, a card game, cook dinner together.
But you said that you don't call him Dad. I'm don't know him or your situation, but based on some past personal experience I'll bet that you using that word with him may be the best thing you can do for Father's Day.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Get him an E-card and maybe an old picture?
[–]DarkStar0129 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
He's not the type to really think of E cards as a gift. I'm 80% sure that he's never recieved one from family.
[–]rehl25 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Get him the smallest unit of of his favorite beverage that you can afford, then spend the day with him. Off of your phones. The beverage will be a gesture, the day, the present. I'm this vague, cause my father loves Chinese spicy soup, but he has no Chinese restaurants where he lives, so I'm gifting him some. So not necessarily alcohol, just something to hand him, that he likes.
[–]DarkStar0129 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, that's probably what I'll do, minus the beverage, cause his favourite beverage is alcohol lol (and it's illegal where I am).
[–]Dug_Fin1 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't have to be his favorite alcoholic beverage, my dad was a huge fan of a very spicy ginger ale (Blenheim I believe) we got him some of that when we could.
Yeah, e cards are completely lost on me. I'd rather a text message. At least that way you're not paying for it.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
How is your relationship with him now that you're there with him?
[–]DarkStar0129 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It's pretty good, over the past year, we've bonded quite a lot. I'm living a 10x better, happier and satisfying life than I was with my mother. Even though I was in a 'big city' with my mother where we got McDonald's wherever we wanted or had a stable Wifi or other stuff, but live in a village on the country side with my father, where there's no fast food joints in a 150km radius and shitty internet.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That's great!! I'm sure conditions aren't so ideal, but in the long run it sounds like you're happy! That's really great.
[–]DarkStar0129 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, we have our moments but we're making it work, no, absolutely crushing it!
[–]miss_chaos[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's really awesome!! I wouldn't worry about buying a card or anything for him. Is there something you two can do together? Do you fish? Work on a puzzle or something maybe? I never really had a father...he was there, physically, but drunk and violent, so I wouldn't even know where to begin to suggest anything.
That's absolutely fine! We have a snarky sense of humor, so I might pull a prank on him. He hasn't witnessed any father's day, so it's very possible that he doesn't even know about it.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe this is a chance to give him a father's day experience?
[–]bsthil 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tradition in my house is to get me a wierd gift and figure out something to do together, generally as a family. We usually go to the local game preserve, but it's closed to the public this year.
[–]janey_canuck 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well, first off, tell him that: that this is an overwhelming experience for you. I'd bet it is for him too. Ask him if it is for him too; give him a chance to talk about it if he wants. If you're finally living with him after years of, I can only assume, lies and bad-mouthing by your mother(?) tell him that this is an important occasion, that you're not sure what to do, but you wanted to mark the occasion.
Secondly, you can apologize to him for the years of not "caring about father's day as I didn't have a father at home". Not 'it's my fault'-apologize, more 'I'm so sorry you've been hurt like that all these years - I never realized'-apologize). If he's not the type to want to make a big deal out of it or it will make him uncomfortable don't belabour it, just say it and move on. But say it like it's important, cause it is. He'll register it and it will stick in his memory as an important moment.
He'll know about the financial difficulties; I very much doubt he's looking for you to shower him with expensive gifts. He probably wants your love and appreciation. And your loyalty.
As others have said on here, ask him about himself, about his family history, about what's important to him in the world. If he's not used to that, then even just putting out that you want to know about it, and you have the rest of your lives to make up for lost time will let him work up to that slowly.
Don't get caught up and paralyzed by expectations. This is new for both of you, so you get to make up new 'traditions'. You can make it fun, make it meaningful, make it light-hearted, make it serious, make it all of those things if you want. Depending on his character, you can 'gift' him a sh*tload of IOUs: fun ones, silly ones, serious ones. Whatever you think might make him laugh, or make him feel appreciated. Ones that let him know your feelings and intentions.
Just make sure to let him know that he's special to you. The two of you will work out how to navigate the rest of it.
[–]DarkStar0129 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This sums up everything. Thank you so much!!!
I literally don't have the words to thank you!!!
[–]janey_canuck 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't have enough words, I have too many. :)
I'm so glad that helped. I hope you both have a wonderful time, and many more in the years ahead.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How about spending time with him? Take some activity you can do with the both of you, bond a bit deeper than you usually would.
[–]DarkStar0129 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not usually possible due to his tight with schedule, but I'll try.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get up early enough to cook him breakfast? I know that would make my day.
[–]DarkStar0129 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uhhh cooking isn't gonna with actually. My household is quite particular with their schedule. My granny cooks breakfast. My dad wouldn't want to eat some new first I made when he wakes up. He'd enjoy that in the evening. I'll see of something I can cook.
[–]RickWest495 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why do man hating women try to take away Father’s Day when all hell would break loose if men tried to take away Mother’s Day. All sexes deserve equal respect. And if you eliminate one, society ends.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
YES
[–]MrDoggo7 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m new to social media in general, do people seriously rant about Father’s Day on Father’s Day?
[–]miss_chaos[S] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Some are long and heartfelt words, some are super dramatic, some are just straight up man bashing.
[–]Help_understanding -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Your straight up female bashing post is ok though?
[–]Unsuitablemasta 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its a female dumbass
[–]Help_understanding -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ahhh, so only men can female bash, got it!
[–]Unsuitablemasta 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Less to no bias
[–]HopliteGFX 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't need a damn day. I'm a father 365 days a year. Let them be petty af. Don't stoop to their level.
Unfortunately, that approach hasn't worked out well. It has led to judges, courts, and politicians stripping away actual rights all the way to the Constitutional level.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
💚💚💚
[–]hmspain 73 points74 points75 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
So separate out the "deadbeats" and honor the ones that pay on time?
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 130 points131 points132 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Of course, this assumes that child support is a just, fair system. It is neither.
It also assumes that a father who cannot pay unfair and unjust amounts is a "deadbeat". Many are not.
It also reduces fathers to a wallet and reinforces the "men are only ATMs". We are not.
[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen brother. I'm living it.
[–]tippytoes2020 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
as a percentage, more women than men that are ordered to pay don’t; to be sure, very few women are ordered to pay
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is no child support. It’s mummy support and is a form of slavery to men.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And given the statistics, it basically subsidizes poor decisions that destroy families and create devastating outcomes for the children.
This is particularly curious when the same peer-reviewed studies and stats show that in non-marital relationships, men and women end relationships at almost exactly the same rate. However, when there's cash and prizes at the end of weaponized and misandrist family courts, women initiate divorce up to 90%.
To top it off? In America, child support has fuck-all to do with "the best interests of the child". It is a cash grab for the states and a welfare recovery program.
Oh, and one of the basic tenets of human rights, the eradication of debtor's prisons, does not apply in the USA. As you say, this horribly corrupt system is truly a form of slavery to men--all in the name of greed on the part of state governments and a certain large group of misandrist feminists.
There is an entire parasitic group of people who are living off this situation. Lawyers. Police. Women’s refuge, prisons, contact supervisors, child protection services, Courts, judges, politicians, victims advocate services. Parole and probation services, and the list goes on.
[–]NinjaDingo 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Couldn't have said it better myself, awesome post.
[–]v573v 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How about we separate those who wanted kids from those who just wanted sex and stop pretending that they are the same?
[–]bearforever 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
in my country (israel) we don't even have father's day, we have family day instead
[–]miss_chaos[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love that!
[–]jakonr43 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
FaThErS dAy TaKeS aWaY fRoM sInGlE mOtHeRs
[–]jynx2424 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also celebrate the gay uncles raising their nieces and nephews.
Absolutely!!
[–]gjoel 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A Danish blog asked people on twitter to write about their crap fathers for father's day. Apparently a lot of people with bad fathers have a hard time on fathers day, and the days leading up to it (due to ads), and need to let out steam. A lot of people were grateful for the chance to get it out.
They did the same on mother's day.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's such a great idea!!!! It's nice to be considered like that. Both days are tough, possibly for all parties involved.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't count on it!!!
Dad = Disposable provider.
[–]MeMuchoGrandePene 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i just noticed my family has events on mothers day but not fathers day...wtf sexist family
Start a new tradition!
[–]v4nk4 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are being a bit too nice and considerate with this
[–]ripyourlungsdave 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No need to sink to their level. Better to just show them how to not be petty and vidictive.
[–]swallowingbatteries 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen!
[–]SOwED 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf this post made me think I missed father's day
[–]Nevok_The_Hollowed 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I got banned from r/feminism debating about men's day cause a feminist was complaining about it. If my memory wasnt so shit I'd actually rememeber completely what they said
[–]Ihavenopurposeinlif3 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love to commit arson
[–]Bigbog54 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
[–]Heterodynist 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!!! This needs to be said. Can we have one day to honor GOOD fathers before getting back to the other 364 days of talking about everything evil about men and fathers?!
[–]HCEandALP4ever 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey, u/miss_chaos, I'm a bit late to the party, so I'm not sure how you're feeling about how you've been treated here. I just wanted to say that for my part, I think you're doing fine. I'm glad you're here, and thank you for your contributions.
Thank you so much!! I really appreciate that. Everyone's nice for the most part, and the angry and mean people are just that. 🤙
[–]feminismIsHateOfMen 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
"celebrate the good fathers out there"
"So the good ones can be celebrated" ?????
Mother's Day makes no distinction though. So you imply that all mothers deserve to be celebrated and only some fathers deserve to be celebrated. That is extremely sexist and discriminatory. You're playing the game of feminism by demonizing men. This post should be more like a feminist subreddit.
Fuck off.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago* (15 children) | Copy Link
I meant this to celebrate dads and fathers, I didn't mean for it to offend. I don't like that good fathers get overlooked.
There sure are deadbeat mothers that don't deserve an ounce of credit they're given.
I honestly didn't mean for this to be offensive at all
[+]feminismIsHateOfMen -13 points-12 points-11 points 6 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
I understand that, however you have to stop being so lax with yourself and others. Good will is nothing if actions have bad consequences.
[–]CertainCrow1 28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think his point was the double standard. Nobody picks apart bad mother's on mother's Day... But in Father's day women will choose to make it about them being a single mom or why certain dada aren't worthy etc. But yeah inheard you last line should just be so dad's can have their day and be celebrated or something
[–]janey_canuck 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, that's starting to change in the last few years. I'm hearing a lot more now about bad mothers on Mother's Day, from both men and women, where that used to be absolutely verboten. But it's still not anything like you'd hear on Father's Day, and have been hearing for decades.
No doubt there is a massive double standard. And your point about the OP's last line is completely valid. The default should be the same either way: either we're celebrating good mothers and good fathers on their respective days, or we're just celebrating mothers and fathers full stop.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I'm personally not lax, but I understand what you're saying and I'm sorry.
[–]anarion99 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You dont need to apologize. I see it as a difference of opinion. And the reality we live. There are way more vocal, vindictive women then there are men. Hence the discrepancy. Just how it is.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You're absolutely right about that and it's terrible.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Miss chaos, thank you for this post. You are a good person.
Thank you so much!
same from me, thanks so much for this post. I understand the sentiment of the commenter who felt this was a feminist image but I understand it wasn't your intention at all. thanks again :)
😻😻😻 I'm so glad it's largely being received as a positive message. Thank you so much! You're all so very nice!! I was nervous about posting something in here.
[–]Sophisticated_Sloth 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You really shouldn’t apologise. You’ve done nothing wrong, friend.
[–]Sophisticated_Sloth 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you have to stop being so lax with yourself you have to stop
you have to stop being so lax with yourself
you have to stop
God you sound like a feminist. It’s so insane that you’re not even hearing this yourself.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah seriously I read this and was like, “Damn feminism is still apparent even in a father’s day post on a mens rights sub” like shit man even the mens rights people hate men
[–]anarion99 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Btw she wasn't implying that all mothers are good. Good and bad mothers wasnt the focus of the post. The focus was telling women to stop focusing on the bad fathers( which exist, same as bad mothers) and let the good fathers have their day in the sun. Dont scare off a well intentioned woman.
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]denis6566 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My god
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What’d they say
Posted on my FB page.
[–]Enfield13 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love fathers day I love when people make shitty comments on FB, always good for a laugh.
[–]FlaggedAss 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
(To be honest I forgot about when Father’s Day and Mother’s Day were, but Siri helped me)
Same. This picture came up in my Facebook memories.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I am sure not all women are the same but some women turn into monsters as soon as they get pregnant and some turn into monsters after they give birth.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I believe it! I've seen it first hand. I don't understand it . Some turn into monsters once they get a ring.
It’s funny that they blame the male when he runs away.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They were monsters all along. Just sociopathically wonderful at hiding their true colors.
I believe it!!
[–]MiguelCae 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What day is it going to be?
Yeah, I'm not holding my breath.
[–]benderXX 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or simply say —Fuck off. Don’t beg for what already belongs to you! As silly as this day is dads don’t permission to celebrate.
[–]PNWDMD 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Won’t happen
[–]jjusedtobeonice 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just like with mother's day
[–]CrunchyJeans 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone know of a good place or site to get detailed model cars? The ones about the size of a computer mouse? I’m trying to get my dad a car gift he’ll love
[–]sanrio-sugarplum 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I totally agree with the sentiment but you're not going to get through to anyone with this "sit down, this is our day" approach. It's better to just ignore the man-haters; they're a small minority anyway and people only acknowledge them because of how obnoxious they are.
[–]AkashUK 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nearly forgot about that. Sorry dad.
[–]banana_walker_3000 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
B- but single mom have hard life :((
[–]Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beautiful. Going to slap this up on the day and save the comments for future evidence/use depending in how things swing.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
To be fair, people did shit on mothers Day with father's day shit, so if they do it's kinda revenge
[–][deleted] 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Flex seal lmfao, they shouted out single dads on mothers day (WHICH ISNT A BAD THING), this post implies that single mothers shouldn't have the right to complain on Father's Day too
[–]Help_understanding -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can I get help understanding what the point of this is? Have any fathers on here been personally attacked only on father's day?
Yes, feminists have repeatedly tried to remove it as a holiday because they deem it as sexist.
[–]Help_understanding 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who was personally attacked? There's a movement for everything these days...
[+]Silentpoolman -13 points-12 points-11 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I'm a single man with no children. Why don't I get celebrated on Father's Day?
[–]miss_chaos[S] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to ask Santa that.
You have international men’s day
[–]antilopes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You may if you provide a father role to children around you. There's plenty of kids who lack a father figure, it doesn't take much to make a difference sometimes.
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Because you aren't a father. The same reason that I don't get celebrated on Mother's Day.
If you would like to start Pool Man Day though, I'll sign the papers.
[–]Silentpoolman 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bigot
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fine.
Silent Pool Man Day.
We'll even have piñatas, cake, and whiskey.
[–]Silentpoolman 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're evil.
[+][deleted] -10 points-9 points-8 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This post is an outrage to women. no one is stopping anyone celebrating father's day? do you think single mums are trying to steal father's day cards?
if you want to celebrate it fine. mothers and fathers day are both self-congratulating people. the baby never asked to be born and yet we have to give mothers and fathers a 'special' day? and yes im a parent i think its stupid for celebrating a day that the parent caused. i have a great life but what if someone's child has a shit life like gets cancer or goes blind? do they still have to give their parents a card for all the suffering they are going through and all the suffering they will have to go through before their inevitable death that comes with 2 people breeding?
also many men coerse women in to getting abortions or they rape their children so this post is an insult to those women. single mums get to celebrate father's day if they so choose to and you shouldn't be saying they should feel guility for stealing the day and yes I have an amazing dad and step-dad.
[–]miss_chaos[S] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is not the post for all of that.
God I wish I could've seen their username so I could see some other bullshit
[–]assassinator1014 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Many men rape their children and coerce abortion... yeah imma need to see those stats
That poster would shit bricks and snort apple juice at some of the other stats.
[–]antilopes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
A very tiny percentage of men rape their pre-pubescent children. After puberty the % shoots up for girls but is still a small percentage, far less than men who rape adult women. I don't know about coerced abortion.
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