Women need to start making the first move. Governments need to start educating kids at a young age that equality goes both ways. That women are not entitled to marry up, to be asked out, to demand that men act in certain ways. And Men need to be told that they don't need to play their games and that they have value. Equality goes both ways. Each side must put in the same. And a return to socially enforced monogamy would also do wonders