Conservatives and liberals, feminists and redpillers, the religious and the non-religious, capitalists and socialists, no matter what camp you take, everyone seems to be so aversive to the idea of male self-actualization and self-direction

But why would such concept make people uptight?

Why would any self-respecting men over the age of 18, die, sacrifice and abide by a society that literally marginalizes and disrespects them?

We get literally nothing in return for busting our asses off, our mentors always end up throwing us under the ditch, I think WW2 and Ukraine-Russian exemplified this very well

Granted I am not saying women get any less of a raw deal, but there's no social taboo of women putting themselves first, none whatsoever, women can pamper themselves and be as self-indulgent as they want and nobody is really gonna question their dignity. Meanwhile there are many pejoratives to dehumanize a man for pertaining to a cliché that reeks of vapid hedonism and consumerism including coomer for those who are all into erotica and porn consumption, you have brookie for the unemployed and horrible with money, you have bum for those who don't drive a car, you have incel for those well obviously struggling in the dating scene, so many of them and society keeps only coming up with more ways to dehumanize men who don't fit a certain mold

Women being allowed to over-spoil themselves is why celebrity narcissism is off the hooks with the likes of Lizzo, Doja Cat, Taylor Swift, Kim Kardashian, Ice Spice, so on and so forth in the first place, these women are the pinnacle of the princess lifestyle

But meanwhile society not only vilifies Andrew Tate for his blunt rhetoric on gender issues, he gets blasted for having a ton of cars when he literally worked his ass off for them thru his kickboxing career

Yet if Andrew Tate was a woman he would be applauded for how hard she worked to get those cars

Seriously society why does it bother you?