Age Gap

CFRProflcopter · 2014-02-25T02:44:10+00:00

Red Pill is a sub filled with troubled young men looking for guidance and answers. Blue Pill is a sub of older women, shitting on young men for being frustrated over the dating market. I honesly belive that if blue pill understood the age gap, they would calm down and go back to doing the things that single 30 year old women do [3] .

Didn't TBP do a survey? I'm pretty sure they found that their readership is 50/50 male/female. Ah, here it is:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1GR1qqgUkmvCxRzBoITggAJ0vFx0J9v6TcDixCLc4YsM/viewanalytics

Female: 50%
Male: 46%

Under 18: 12%
18-24: 59%
25-34: 25%
35-44: 3%

Student: 49%
Bachelor'e degree (STEM): 17%
Bachelor's degree (Liberal Arts): 17%
Graduate degree (STEM): 6%
Graduate degree (Liberal Arts): 6%

shitlordlucy · 2014-02-25T18:46:33+00:00

I've always seen TRP as a mix of young (under 25) and older (over 40) men. The young ones are upset about how flighty teenage girls can be, understandably so, and the older ones are pissed about their ex-wives, paying child support, etc. I don't mean this in a derogatory way, it's just what I've seen.

I've actually seen a lot of BP men, too.

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lokidemon731 · 2014-02-25T01:38:17+00:00

I'm 22 and I don't understand TRP any better than 30 year olds. On the other hand, I know /u/danabanana9 is older and has been married for a while and she's very RP. I'm not sure age is really the issue here.

SpaceWhiskey · 2014-02-25T03:25:31+00:00

Most BP individuals who are in their late 20s/early 30s (myself included) are in healthy, successful relationships, so I'm not sure where you get the crazy cat lady thing other than trying to insult/stir up argument.

I've always been under the impression that a decent chunk of the BP crowd does feel empathy and humanity towards the troubled youth of TRP, but just can't get down with all that 'all women suck trust us' flavor.

SpaceWhiskey · 2014-02-25T02:55:28+00:00

I'm 20 and what most would consider conventionally attractive. So not exactly what you are describing people on the blue pill to be. I'm not even a feminist actually. I mean I even like being submissive sometimes.

The Blue Pill or sarcasm in general is my vice. I recognize that and I don't exactly like it but damn it feels good to have an outlet.

SpaceWhiskey · 2014-02-25T14:22:50+00:00

Wow. Loads of unfounded stereotypes.

Must be Tuesday!

happyhorse_g · 2014-02-25T01:54:15+00:00

Interesting insight indeed, from one so high up community. Thanks.

In my experience, there's no debate on the red pill, or at most, debate about the details of how they are right. I always get down-voted and I'm banned from posting on red pill women because I counted someone who could ban me. Not trolling, not mocking, just disagreeing. I put it down to age and insecurities about the ideas being posted. If you post a world view, I understand you really don't want that questioned.

I wholeheartedly agree with TRP being populated by troubled young men. There is a big problem between wanting to see things differently, and hating the old way you seen things. There's a real disconnect

RobotPartsCorp · 2014-02-25T15:32:34+00:00

Well, I'm a 31 year old woman but that's where your stereotype ends. I don't have cats, I have a dog that I've had for 10 years, I am in a stable relationship and I am not unattractive nor overweight. I seriously do not like cats but I DO like your posts because they include hilarious images.

GridReXX · 2014-02-25T19:53:00+00:00

Nah.

If these frustrated young males were focused solely on self improvement, sure. I have a younger brother and younger sister. I want them to be their best selves.

But if either one came home stating "all women are bitches and evil and stupid!" or "all men are evil and bitches and stupid!" I would slap them both.

Simple as that.

ohsweetword · 2014-02-26T06:09:34+00:00

Redpill seems to slant younger. You can tell in the types of responses and posts. Btw, I am an older redpill male.

I've always naturally bucked the trend of having a relationship. Part of it being as asshole, part of it just natural RP tendencies, and part of it not being impressed with my dating field. Also, part of it being I date girls 10 years younger than me, and they don't want marriage - so it works out.

But I think of it as natural subtle red pill male behavior, and actually knowing and expressing red pill theories. I think a lot of normal healthy guys will act on red pill behavior before it is beaten out of them and repressed.

From what I've seen in my life and others it that guys tend to lose their natural aggression around 24ish. I was pretty wild up until that point. Banging girls left and right and being a right bastard. But eventually life events catch up with you, be it holding a job or bad choices. It was easy to be Red Pill then because my body naturally expressed it without needing to read the ideas. It's also a lot easier to hit on younger girls who want to fuck around when you're surrounded by them and have an excuse to be where they hang out.

From 24-28 you start to slow down a bit and can be more reflective and reflexive. Usually you'll get more long-term jobs that take up more of your time and this will lead to the desire to be in a more long-term relationship. This is about the age that females peak and they start to settle down to. Your body is also going to slow down if you're not working out. I've seen a lot of late 20's start to put on pounds.

I also had a ton of friends from my small town be married by 25. Buying houses and thinking about kids. That will take the subtle red pill right out of the average guy. Of course, half of these marriages or more are over by their early 30's especially these days, but I have a few friends who are still together.

It only takes one bad case of oneitis to ruin a guys life forever, or at least decades.

Anyway from 28-34 is a really critical time for a guy who is still single, or finding themselves single. Your body will peak again at 35 if you're doing the right things and you'll start to want more out of your life, be it job, or girlfriend/wife. It probably won't be quite as easy to bang younger girls either, even if you're attractive. Though I tend to date younger girls exclusively, not all of them want older guys and it can be hard to make time for them.

I think this is the best time to really start to think about the Red pill consciously. Use it to plan for your future and protect yourself from what might come your way. If I could do it again, I wish I would have read more Redpill theory in my youth, to keep me on form in the slump of my late 20's, but such is life. 35 is a great time to be a single man, and if you're not taking care of yourself you better start.

Just my 2 cents.

MissCherryPi · 2014-02-26T15:39:08+00:00

31, woman, married, allergic to cats, Blue Pill.

I do agree that the demographics of the subs are different, but that's irrelevant because TRP presents itself as a universal truth applying to all heterosexual people.

BabeOfBlasphemy · 2014-03-01T22:37:22+00:00

I'm a blue pill, 38 and a woman. I don't "shit on younger men", I raise them. As a daughter, sister, hetero lover and mother my life is colored by men I adore and would die for. I have no Axe to grind with males. Frankly, to assume the average woman is even capable of man hating is quite telling about how men misunderstand women. Maybe because they don't give birth they have a harder time reaching the agape form of love many mothers I know instinctually feel towards fellow humans.

For me, gestating, birthing and raising a children taught me intimately about the fragility of life, the luck of The draw when it comes to the crap shoot of genetics, the innocence of children, the need all have for love, compassion and patience. I see all humans as the culmination of billions of years of nurturing each generation of this planet had invested. Each the carriers of their ancestor's hope and hard work. I have an innate feeling towards all humans as the life's work and dreams of a mother. I don't see someone's beloved child as sexual prey to be lied to and duped into giving me access to their body. I don't objectify humans. But I do get angry with a righteous sense of injustice when I see someone willfully regard another in such a sickening way, and I do lash out at them just like a parent tells their unruly kid to stop being such a selfish shit.

So what's my problem with the red pill? The fact that it predatory upon women, reducing them to a wet hole for there mere pleasure of some selfish kid's cock and I call them out for such dehumanization. No different than how a matriarch gorilla swats at the beta idiot trying to irritate a fellow troupe member instead of getting his shit together and being a loving protector and provider like the silver back she gives access to.

I would have no issue with red pill if their goal was to build a loving relationship to support and nurture BOTH members to be the best of their ability. If it was about sharing information to understand the little known needs of women and educate about the needs of men I would be a fan. But its not like that. Instead it reads like a version of charlie's diary on two and a half men, all about creating game to bed as many unwitting virginal women as possible only to spat upon as some whore afterwards. I have a 17 year old daughter I'm.trying to raise to be a good woman and an eight year old son. I don't want her encountering this kind of dousche and I certainly do NOT want my son to become one. I want them to pursue and become a man like my own father, who would puke at the dehumanizing selfish shit TRP spews. My dad knew a thing about how to keep a virgin girl for fifty years to service him, and it certainly had NOTHING to do with regarding her as a dumb hamster...

Title	Age Gap
Author	GayLubeOil
Upvotes	12
Comments	72
Date	February 24, 2014 11:45 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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