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DonQOnIce · 2022-02-11T15:59:04+00:00

This is sad. Get a divorce.

2022-02-11T16:00:08+00:00

That might be true. What is true is that until you leave you're a Beta.

Divorce her now while your incomes low and try to lock in a figure based on that income.

Speak to a family attorney that specialises in divorce ASAP.

Who cares what she is, you should be running.

chingness · 2022-02-11T15:57:53+00:00

You don’t sound like you like your wife - perhaps that’s where her misandry has stemmed from? Having a husband who doesn’t like her?

How did you end up marrying someone you see as so much beneath you? Why do you stay with her? Obligation?

I’m not being facetious here it’s hard without tone on messages I’m genuinely intrigued as how you can with someone you say these things about

Phuxsea · 2022-02-11T15:58:44+00:00

I think if she hates that you're making more money than her, she wouldn't belong on FDS.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-02-11T15:58:17+00:00

I don't think this is the type of post meant for this sub lol.

GirlMetWorld · 2022-02-11T15:59:48+00:00

why do you care abt her much money she makes
I find it genuinely hard to believe that youre a 9/10 guy ngl.

pityforthemajority · 2022-02-11T16:00:34+00:00

Wait……are you married to my ex wife?

ElHombreG · 2022-02-11T16:06:22+00:00

You don’t respect yourself and that’s why she does what she does. Grow up, divorce her, and move on.

2022-02-11T16:07:13+00:00

Lol @ the females here trying to tell you the way you talk about her is why she is the way she is. Nooooooooope.

OP, you should sit down with her and tell her, directly and firmly, that if she doesn't make some changes you're leaving. Let her have her tantrum, but hold firm. It's going to get ugly before it gets better. After the tantrum she'll either start to make those changes you want to see or she'll just get nastier. If the latter, initiate divorce protocol alpha-niner-niner. Yes, you will probably have to give her quite a bit of your money, and maybe any property you own. But it will be worth it in the end.

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PlayfulLawyer · 2022-02-11T16:04:45+00:00

Well then tell her to hit the gym and get it together or just divorce her, a man marrying a woman with fds traits does him no good

figuringMylife · 2022-02-11T16:04:55+00:00

this belongs in the daily discussion.

Need_wine · 2022-02-11T16:06:12+00:00

I’m going to be honest, this sounds like typical married people problems and belongs under Reddit relationships.

Maleficent-Brief-178 · 2022-02-11T16:06:16+00:00

It sounds like there's an enormous amount of mutual hostility and resentment in your relationship if one of you dos not pull the cord sooner or later you will both end up absolute misery or worse 😳 hopefully there are no children involved but even if there is do the right thing and escape as soon as possible but also as mutually agreeable as possible

tiposk · 2022-02-11T16:08:55+00:00

If you've tried to work around it and you're still dissatisfied with your relationship, get a divorce. There's nothing else I can tell you. And stop looking for advice on PPD.

Bandit174 · 2022-02-11T16:09:12+00:00

If she was on FDS right now they'd probably be telling her she could do better and that she should leave you for someone who can provide.

I think you should take that advice and move on especially if you don't have kids with her yet.

2022-02-11T16:11:20+00:00

It feels like this conveniently hits a bunch of RP talking points, but OK, assuming this is straight facts, I'd suggest counseling (so you can talk about her weight and income in a place that feels "neutral") if you want to save the marriage. If not, divorce.

You have not, however, mentioned kids. So if you have them I'd lean heavily toward counseling to fix at least a few of the problems first. If not, then leave. Once you leave, who cares if she goes on FDS? She won't be your problem.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-02-11T16:09:03+00:00

No advice threads

Basic-Distribution14 · 2022-02-11T15:58:33+00:00

Maybes she’s depressed and u can help her besides shitting on her and talking about how much better you are than her?

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