Anytime a man does something unintelligent, like going to a bad of town where he is robbed, mouth off to the wrong person and get punched in the face and assaulted, date a stripper or obvious golddigger and then get divorced for his money - we always point and laugh at his stupidity. This is an important lesson for other men not to make the same mistakes,

Yet for women we expect them to be coddled and anyone who says otherwise is called an abuser, victim blamer, misogynist, etc. Women who put themselves in bad situations need to be victim blamed more frequently and more intensely so other women can learn from their mistakes. Instead women grow up thinking they can act whatever idiotic way they want and the whole world should look out for them.

We can actually both shame/imprison the offender, and shame the victim for their stupidity.