I think all problems in dating environment stem from people who love to date the assholes of the other gender, if both men and women started pretending like assholes NEVER existed and never gave them any attention this world would be a better place. Sadly both genders get persuaded by the looks and they can't/don't want to control themselves because of having a strong attraction that blurs their minds.

Edit: Wow i got a lot of comments but few got the definition i have in mind for assholes. Since we are in a blue vs red pill sub i thought you would guess what i meant by an asshole, it's the people who use and manipulate their partners, like redpillers use manipulative tactics in the dating world so does gold diggers and other selfish women. Their selfishness almost always gets blurred by their looks or be mistaken for "alpha" charming traits. It's the people you would sniff from a mile away they have a god complex and want to control their partners via manipulation. This knows no gender. I don't know personally many men who actively go out of their way to ignore looks and date the "good" girls. If it was that way then why movements such as MGTOW started and spread you think? You don't counter manipulativeness with more manipulation, you ignore the manipulative people, that's why i find TRP kind of useless since dating players of either gender will not lead to a genuine relationship so they must be ignored.