Is there an event (or multiple) that made you believe the blue/black/red/etc pill is true? If so what was it? Or if it was something else, what was it?

odd_federal34 · 2021-10-03T00:26:09+00:00

I backtested in my mind some of the interactions I had with opposite sex. It fits.

BillyWrightGAC · 2021-10-03T02:44:23+00:00

watching my arab drinking partner treat high-powered professional women like categorical trash, and seeing them line up for him, time after time after time.

Mark_Freed · 2021-10-03T02:52:45+00:00

Heard I would be a great bf/husband from female friends.

Got rejected by girls I crushed on. Started wondering if I lacked masculine traits. Applied logic, read about this stuff online.

Stopped listening to words and went back and analysed what I observed were girl’s actions. The guys who got a gf in college, their traits. Realized I was lied to my entire life.

Honestly no one gets red pilled watching the shit videos these people make. You live life and get hurt a few time, you go searching for answers.

Others don't get hurt and stay blue. Well others will keep getting hurt or give up too quickly at red pill stage and go black.

I think most red pill guys are the sensitive types inside. Even fds girls are actually soft deep inside. They became prickly cause of the hurt.

calfshrug · 2021-10-03T00:09:40+00:00

I went on a cruise and saw that all the hot dudes and chicks at the bar were acting like human bratz dolls. The women and hot guy babes would predictably turn their heels, make nose-scrunches of disgust, adopt irritated, angry bee vocal tonality, and issue insults or challenges at any mere mortal who would dare approach them.

The first person I made out with was dared to do it with me by a hot guy babe that she was friends with, also. I ended up getting put on the FZ by her

TheJim66 · 2021-10-03T01:15:22+00:00

Literally every time I've seen a woman interact with a man.

AbuJavascript · 2021-10-03T05:23:31+00:00

Looking back at past relationships...girls who dumped me were the ones I loved more and simped for. Girls who stayed and begged for commitment were ones that I liked moderately but deep down wanted to upgrade. That's why I believe in red pill.

And now that I'm older I'm finding it's impossible to attract women because I'm a bit less attractive...slight hair line recession, slightly older looking face, and slightly overweight. So that's why I believe in black pill.

HOLYREGIME · 2021-10-03T00:37:31+00:00

Where do I even begin. I have plenty of stories. I’ll try to make this short.

Chad hooks up with Becky. We ended up going back to her campus 2 weeks later. We saw Becky, but chad wasn’t interested in hooking up with her again. We go to a few different bars and Becky ends up FaceTiming Chad. She’s crying… “we hooked up, but you said…” The night is winding down and we end up walking back to the car around 3am. Nobody is out around campus, but a girl is walking down the street in a hoodie. She stops and says “Hey, aren’t you Chad?”. You should’ve seen the look on my face. Random girls know this guy. She tells us she’s friends with Becky and she just wants them to be “friends” lol.

herefortheparty01 · 2021-10-03T00:41:29+00:00

I Deff fit the red pills asserting boundaries and setting goals. Not passive. It changed my life

gkom1917 · 2021-10-03T06:32:18+00:00

Can't say I "believe in pills" since the amount of overexaggeration for both pills makes uncritically believing in them simply stupid.

But the story is simple. Unfortunately, my role model was my father, who is not the most handsome and high-status man, but he made everything possible to support my mother both financially and emotionally, and she was caring and supportive in return. Also no signs of infidelity from either side, I'd noticed if dad ever showed home late or if my stay-at-home-mom suddenly went somewhere. I guess all it formed unrealistic expectations about how relationships work.

In reality: first serious girlfriend literally physically and mentally abused me, I had fun time explaining the bruises on my face at university and at work. Then a few years of mostly dry spell (two awkward ONS). Then second gf "not ready for relationships" (but suddenly ready for them with the next guy).

Then third girlfriend - oh boy, what an experience. I was already aware I might look not that appealing, so I explicitly offered her to stay friends if my height is an issue, or if sex isn't good, or if she's not ready. Nope, she said all good. What's next? Insults, playing games, then outright cheating, gaslighting, and finally admitting she lied about height, sex etc, dumping me AND making herself look like a victim. And when I asked her why wasting so many months of my life, she replied "you were so caring and supportive, I didn't wanna lose it".

Then I wanted to reality check, maybe it's her narcissistic tendencies and I was just unlucky. So, I start searching for anonymous female forums, non-anonymous female forums, facebook groups - wherever the was a chance to see women speak their mind without much societal pressure.

What a goldmine I found. Turned out my ex was not only not alone, her behaviour was completely normal! Hundreds of woman, both from my country and across the world, justifying infidelity, admitting how they used men without shame, ranting about "manlets" who look "disgusting", talking about penises and men's sexual abilities in so derogatory way, that it made male locker-room trash sound like nursery rhymes in comparison.

And those who were less insultingly explicit still had their lists of superficial requirements. And their share of stories about questionable behaviour. And the fact "being real men" in their eyes was suspiciously like "toxic masculinity" we're supposed to reject. The few nice ones who seemed to geniunely love their bfs/husbands were either in relationships with more-or-less-chads, or pretty conservative and taken since their early twenties.

In the same time I decided to just see who would make it clear that they like me. A 45 y.o. woman who needed to hook up with someone younger. Then a single mom in mid-30's who was so lonely she couldn't stop speaking about her kids all the time. Next, an overweight single mom my age, who was actually pretty nice, but in addition to her weight she was so uptight and so awkward it made me feel like a clown and a ballerina at once. Finally, a bisexual polyamorous girl who had ONS's at least monthly, sometimes with literal strangers. Speaks volumes, doesn't it?

Of course I also tried OLD - well, we all know what the OLD experience is. I also noticed how even my average-looking male friends had their share of struggle, while my female friends never were really alone and sexless for more then a couple of months. I started to notice how rarely I see the couples on streets where a man is objectively uglier than a woman or shorter than 5'8-5'9 (let alone not a couple of inches taller than her). And then I found I'm not the only one who noticed those things and it finally clicked.

UrFoodMolestedMyNose · 2021-10-03T06:12:29+00:00

Blue pill: Some arguably ugly but funny Asian guy had girls after him in high school.

I actually know a incel in real life. They don’t know I know. It is 100% their personality. There are guys with his height and face with girls. I know he’s an incel because one time we were hanging out and he mentioned was low key trying to black pill us? 💀 everyone was confused and I also pretended to be.

Mgtow pill (yellow sign pill)

I personally know a chad who gave up on dating because “women ain’t shit”.

Red pill:

A guy someone I know is dating confessing he was only dating her so she wouldn’t stop having sex with him (they were fwb untill she asked him be date. note to self, don’t ask men out. Probably pink pill too

Things my friends in high school said when no guys were around.

A few guys I passed on that under went self improvement and now I regret it. (They are ducking hot now) one guy was a fat 3/10 then lost the weight and instant became a 8/10 another guy legit just stopped letting his mom cut his hair. Went from a 4 to a 8. His personality is actually pretty sus tho so this is also kinda blue pill.

Pink pill:

Friend was brutally raped by high school boyfriend. He was literally the ugly shy kid who by all accounts should have been lucky to even have a girlfriend at all. (All men have the capacity to terrible, dating down doesn’t help)

Black pill:

Some of the guys I know irl that are “self improving” by red pill standards that I know deep down no girl would actually like. Legit one guy who is like 5’4 but jacked. He’s still ugly sadly. Another guy just has an ugly face in general.

racist things my friends say about guys

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dobermann333 · 2021-10-03T00:20:05+00:00

first gf had BPD. She cheated on me. Found TRP in my search for answers and the rest is history.

This is the story of many TRP guys lol

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