Sexual vs Sensual

SmurfESmurferson · 2016-08-02T14:18:58+00:00

On another note, make 100% sure whatever massage parlor you visit is known to be a brothel.

I've worked in a high end day spa, and the amount of men who propositioned the legitimate massage therapists was astounding. It's incredibly insulting to just be doing you job, earning a paycheck, and have people mistake you for a sex worker.

whyyoureadmyusername · 2016-08-02T14:00:44+00:00

Sensual refers to any type of physical gratification, usually with the connotation that it is also sexual in nature.

Sexual is just anything relating to sex.

So more often than not, there is no line between the two, as something sexual can often also be described as sensual.

sublimemongrel · 2016-08-02T16:03:10+00:00

This is such an odd question. Ofc it's ok to get a full body massage. That's not cheating.

Have you talked to your wife about the dead bedroom thing? Getting a massage isn't going to fix that like, at all. :(

FairlyNaive · 2016-08-02T14:02:41+00:00

Are you trying to draw the line where cheating starts? Because for me sexual is a part of sensual and there could not be a line between the two.

yo_radical_one · 2016-08-02T14:18:19+00:00

It's cheating, it's also lame if you have to pay for it and will make your wife laugh at you rather than get down on her knees for the Mi Suckee.

Go tell your wife you want to fuck her.

GridReXX · 2016-08-02T14:45:29+00:00

1) It's cheating.

2) When I think of sensual I think of full body skin to skin contact.. which is what I prefer 80% of the time, which is probably why I prefer sapphic intimacy because it's almost always like that.

When I think sexual I think of people only focusing on the genitals? So like a woman giving another woman oral. Or a woman giving a man a BJ. Or a man fucking a woman/man where the only physical/bodily contact is his penis entering an orifice - doggy style.

Basically when I think sexual NSFW.

When I think sensual I think this.

More importantly /u/whyyoureadmyusername is correct.

Truecelacct · 2016-08-02T20:01:22+00:00

It seems like you're looking to get just as close to the cheating line as possible without technically cheating. I view cheating like this: if it's something you would keep from your partner, it's probably cheating.

Talk to your wife. See if you can find a compromise or a way to turn her on more. Maybe look into couples counseling or sex therapy.

EliteSpartanRanger · 2016-08-03T01:03:49+00:00

Both sensual and sexual is a mixture of spiritual and carnal. Sensual is heavier on the spiritual side and sexual is heavier on the carnal side, but it's a spectrum.

[deleted] · 2016-08-02T13:56:38+00:00

You need to sort you deadbedroom before everything else.

If your wife is not willing to entertain anything then cut her loose and start again.

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lollygagyo · 2016-08-02T21:06:51+00:00

You're cheating whether it's sexual or sensual, here.

Don't do mental gymnastics to justify it.

Try and fix things between yourself and your wife or get out of the relationship.

rulenumber303 · 2016-08-03T04:40:52+00:00

Why not ask your wife if she'd do a spa day with you? Those often include a couple's massage.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2016-08-03T12:53:06+00:00

hit the gym, delete facebook, lawyer up

Truecelacct · 2016-08-02T14:03:48+00:00

If your wife won't ever put out, at some point it stops being cheating

Title	Sexual vs Sensual
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Comments	57
Date	August 2, 2016 1:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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