For me, a girl having done sex work, OF, etc., high body count isn’t an automatic dealbreaker. I’ve been in long term relationships where the girl has had a history and it didn’t bother me that much. She was open about it and I appreciated it. Another hot take is that lying isn’t an automatic dealbreaker for me.

My bottom line is lack of self awareness. Someone could be squeaky clean trad wife type but without a certain (pretty high) amount of self awareness I won’t take someone seriously, full stop.

So for other guys with atypical bottom lines, what are yours and why?