Even on a first date it might be fine, all depends how it's done.
If it's to "establish dominance" then yeah that's the end. If it's "Ohh that looks good, I've been meaning to try that here can I have a bite?" [takes it off your fork with a smile]... I mean... there's no hard and fast rules here.
What? I share food with others (well, not now with the pandemic) specially if the restaurant is nice and they want to see how my plate tasted. Asking for plates to share is not weird either. Maybe it’s you the one who’s being the grubby child with the “no it’s my food not yours” attitude.
Edit: people downvoting... do you really never share or let others taste from your plate?
But Potato King, since you still didn’t address my first comment on how tf this is ppd, or why OP thinks plate-vultures only consist of women, I can address your shit instead. We get it, you have some deep inclination to prove to the world that you’re an adult big boy, because I’m sure somewhere in you’re life you feel childish and therefore you have to compensate for it. Good job, you are really good at food boundaries.
I’m not the one who thinks a couple of downvotes in an echo chamber equates to worthwhile data. Maybe the people who would agree with me left this sub because of toxic man-babies like you who can’t handle a civil discussion.
Also, I know you’re not op. But you’re defending a post they made, so I thought you had some perspective into it. Sorry for assuming you had anything of value to add.
It can be hard to read sometimes, I get it. So let me reiterate again, hopefully you can keep up. *this sub upvoting you does not mean you have the entire world’s vote. I’m glad you can count, but this is an echo chamber.
*to a lot of people that I know (since we’re sharing personal experiences instead of debating the mentality behind it like I wanted) Sharing is Caring. Every single person I know will say “hey, I’ll trade you a fry for a bite of your chicken”. And I’ll say “sure! I get to try one of your fries, and you get to try something different too”. It’s not as big of a deal as you’re making it out to be.
Maybe it’s your culture, man. Most adults in my country do this in familiar settings (not so much in a work environment, for example). It’s pretty common to say “this is pretty good, anyone wants to taste?”. Saying that is a childish behavior is just weird.
Thats why I've gotten upvotes across my various posts and you've been down voted.
Yeah, because people looking at controversial posts on r/pussypassdenied are a representative sample of the population...
Maybe its because most of our population earns more than most of the world, seeing how 35k usd puts you in the top 1% of the world and our median is 52k usd.
Are you compensating for something man? Wealth has nothing to do with this.
The ability to buy your own shit is a factor, poor people tend to beg on others more than not poor people.
It's in a restaurant... everybody is buying their own food... it's just a taste from the plate the person next to you is eating. It's not about money, it's just about eating different things.
Given your response I would wager you dont even hit that 35k mark that's considered lower middle class here
I hit more than that, in a lower cost of life country. Still has nothing to do with this issue.
You never even thought for a moment that YOU might be the minority and not correct, upvotes and down votes seem to support me and not the very few of you who claim "everyone" does it.
This is Reddit, it's insignificant. Second, it's not about "correct" or not, I was just wondering if everybody was so adamantly against sharing food.
Prove everyone does it, because as it stands the popular vote is staggeringly in my favor.
LOL I wouldn't be surprised that you and the other handful of people claiming everyone does it are commies/socialist types, and the only people pushing for that are the poor begging on others
Are you ok? How on earth can you move from sharing food in restaurant to "damn poor commies"?
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Even on a first date it might be fine, all depends how it's done.
If it's to "establish dominance" then yeah that's the end. If it's "Ohh that looks good, I've been meaning to try that here can I have a bite?" [takes it off your fork with a smile]... I mean... there's no hard and fast rules here.
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Maybe I should have been more explicit that she asked permission and you fed it to her off your fork while she's flirting/smiling at you.
Swapping some mouth germs is first base, you know. How you arrive there is up to you.
I'll stick to my original sentence...
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What? I share food with others (well, not now with the pandemic) specially if the restaurant is nice and they want to see how my plate tasted. Asking for plates to share is not weird either. Maybe it’s you the one who’s being the grubby child with the “no it’s my food not yours” attitude.
Edit: people downvoting... do you really never share or let others taste from your plate?
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Your response doesn’t fit into their justification of this stupid post. Obviously only women take food from other people’s plates?? You don’t count??
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I was responding to u/jealoussprinkles.
But Potato King, since you still didn’t address my first comment on how tf this is ppd, or why OP thinks plate-vultures only consist of women, I can address your shit instead. We get it, you have some deep inclination to prove to the world that you’re an adult big boy, because I’m sure somewhere in you’re life you feel childish and therefore you have to compensate for it. Good job, you are really good at food boundaries.
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I’m not the one who thinks a couple of downvotes in an echo chamber equates to worthwhile data. Maybe the people who would agree with me left this sub because of toxic man-babies like you who can’t handle a civil discussion.
Also, I know you’re not op. But you’re defending a post they made, so I thought you had some perspective into it. Sorry for assuming you had anything of value to add.
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It can be hard to read sometimes, I get it. So let me reiterate again, hopefully you can keep up. *this sub upvoting you does not mean you have the entire world’s vote. I’m glad you can count, but this is an echo chamber.
*to a lot of people that I know (since we’re sharing personal experiences instead of debating the mentality behind it like I wanted) Sharing is Caring. Every single person I know will say “hey, I’ll trade you a fry for a bite of your chicken”. And I’ll say “sure! I get to try one of your fries, and you get to try something different too”. It’s not as big of a deal as you’re making it out to be.
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Maybe it’s your culture, man. Most adults in my country do this in familiar settings (not so much in a work environment, for example). It’s pretty common to say “this is pretty good, anyone wants to taste?”. Saying that is a childish behavior is just weird.
Yeah, because people looking at controversial posts on r/pussypassdenied are a representative sample of the population...
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Are you compensating for something man? Wealth has nothing to do with this.
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It's in a restaurant... everybody is buying their own food... it's just a taste from the plate the person next to you is eating. It's not about money, it's just about eating different things.
I hit more than that, in a lower cost of life country. Still has nothing to do with this issue.
This is Reddit, it's insignificant. Second, it's not about "correct" or not, I was just wondering if everybody was so adamantly against sharing food.
Did I say everyone does it? No I didn't. But in asian cultures it's pretty common to share all the food, and there are even Quora questions about the proper etiquette.
Are you ok? How on earth can you move from sharing food in restaurant to "damn poor commies"?
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Still failed to explain why this is posted here. It’s not ppd
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My bad. I hope you do some soul searching on why you have such an abrasive and hostile attitude. Food is for sharing my man. Chill out.
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You need to understand you are an outlier, it's really not a big deal, I wonder what your reaction is if a date asks for some chips from your plate.
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I’m not the op, maybe ask them for nudes instead of asking me. I’m also a dude. I don’t swing that way.
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