Goodbye ?!

susandeath · 2016-09-03T17:13:29+00:00

Good luck to you on your journey to find a space you like better.

BellaScarletta · 2016-09-03T17:18:23+00:00

We are not less than men. We are different.

We also discuss our flaws and be honest with each other to improve. We do not discuss the flaws of men as those are not within our power to change.

You do not seem like you agree with our philosophies here. Perhaps you would do better in /r/relationships or /r/thebluepill. Maybe /r/twoxchromosomes as well.

Enjoy.

cats_or_get_out · 2016-09-03T20:37:24+00:00

>so much hate towards the female humans

We don't hate women or men. We recognize that women and men follow certain patterns of behavior, some of which are self-destructive. This forum offers several things:

--learning how to identify these behaviors in potential mates so that we don't become plates or alpha widows

--identifying rationalizations (the hamster) that support and enable our own self-destructive behaviors in order to stop falling into old patterns

--we use our awareness of relationship dynamics and self-delusion tendencies to prevent ourselves from making terrible relationship choices

--a counterpoint to a prevalent ideas which says that a woman is only valuable in masculine terms; that is, a woman is more valuable if she has masculine hobbies, a STEM career, etc.

--we recognize that changing other people is fruitless endeavor. Most other relationship forums don't have this point of view. We focus on the person who has the control to make meaningful change, and that is ourselves.

I could go on and on. If this isn't what you're looking for, then it's not for you. No worries. Different strokes for different folks. You do you. :-)

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StingrayVC · 2016-09-03T17:37:23+00:00

I feel like

This is what is hindering you. Not us. You haven't been here long enough or stepped back far enough from your own feelings to understand what we are about.

Sunhappy_DC · 2016-09-03T17:12:42+00:00

If you want to be coddled, i suggest /r/relationships. They're really good at that there. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

_wingnut_ · 2016-09-04T00:02:34+00:00

did you even have ANY idea where you were posting? what we believe? or did you just see /r/blablahsomethingwomen

tintedlipbalm · 2016-09-03T17:18:01+00:00

LOL why did you have the urge to make a histrionic thread for this notice? Buh bye!

Camille11325 · 2016-09-03T20:40:11+00:00

You must have ignored a lot of posts to come to this conclusion! This post is attention seeking, doesn't add value to the subreddit, and it's promoting a BP interpretation of our community. The only reason I am leaving it up as this point is in the event that you realise how useless it was to make a flouncing post after reading my comment.

If you were confused about the position of the subreddit you easily could have:

Submitted a post with the flair "Ask RPW" and asked a question about what we think about women and men.
Read the wiki. We have an entire page called All About RPW that talks about what we believe, it doesn't mention women being inherently inferior to men because we don't believe that. We also have a long list of essential posts which if read, will show that we recognise the strengths and weaknesses of both genders.
Messaged the moderators and asked us questions directly.
Looked through the subreddit and read all of the posts about the beauty of femininity.

This is a community that is focused on a realistic understanding of the genders and also self improvement. There is going to be discussion of the negative aspects of femininity and also modern women in general. Women are not perfect, and it is 100% okay to have an honest discussion about our weaknesses and how we can be better. It is also 100% okay to discuss the strengths of men, and to focus on what we love about the men we are with.

If you are looking for a hug box where women are never criticised and men are never praised, then RPW is not the space for you. I suggest you search through the sub because I personally have submitted a multitude of pro femininity posts.

If you're not going to put in effort to see what RPW is actually about, then bye! And thanks for bringing it to the attention of the mods that we need to have a rule against flouncing posts lol

aZombieKitten · 2016-09-03T17:19:23+00:00

Right, anti-female hate space...

Have a nice time elsewhere, since it's obvious women either are pedestalized or hated and there is no in-between to you.

CoochQuarantine · 2016-09-03T20:43:53+00:00

Bye Felicia!

TempestTcup · 2016-09-04T03:44:24+00:00

LOL, all you do is bitch about your husband; you love being a martyr to his weirdness.

FRedington · 2016-09-03T21:05:16+00:00

There are as many flavors of Married Red Pill [Wives] as there are people interested in the terms. One of those flavors is called Taken in Hand (TiH). Like all other flavors TiH may or may not be for you.

What is it about TiH that is different? It is based on the principle that both sides of the relationship are in it for the same reasons: a Male led relationship in which the woman willingly follows his lead. -- Yeah, yeah. That's what they all say. Imagine if you will that both sides of the relationship begin knowing that is what they want. He does not need to "break" her. She does not need "breaking". He is capable of the requisite leadership. She is willing to be led. -- The difference from this model and what you see here is that it is not all about DrunkCaptains discovering the error of their ways and working on themselves to improve their value to the relationship and proving it to their mates as well as applying the leadership they should have been providing all along.

In MarriedRedPill, it appears as angry field reports. Were I a woman I'd be resentful, especially if I were still under the influence of Feminist indoctrination and what is in effect, my unwillingness to participate in the breaking of my frame and spirit. I'd what to leave this group too.

Taken in Hand. You have got to want to be there for it to work. No covert contracts on either side. Is this what you want?

Sorry if my post is inappropriate.
Mods: delete if you think it appropriate.

Title	Goodbye ?!
Author	Steigertochter1
Upvotes	3
Comments	29
Date	September 3, 2016 5:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/50zprk/goodbye/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWives/goodbye.209621 https://theredarchive.com/post/209621

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