When your partner has a problem

StingrayVC · 2017-06-10T13:16:56+00:00

I deal with it myself. I've learned the hard way about this. You're strong enough to deal with this just the two of you.

PhantomDream09 · 2017-06-10T15:06:37+00:00

Hi /u/vanBeethovenLudwig, as /u/HappyWifeLifeX stated - you seem to have something specific on your mind that you want feedback on. While the general conversation is fine - I strongly encourage you to be upfront and create a specific advice thread. Everyone can tell you what they do about these things, but no one can possibly know if any of it is applicable or even helpful to your specific situation.

As for myself, if something is on my mind - I go to Occam. End of story. No one outside my relationship has any influence or standing. Occam is always my first (and often my last) stop when I am stressed out by work or worried about something. He knows me better than anyone else. We're honest with each other. If I'm worried, he can ease that worry.

bunniebell · 2017-06-10T10:08:24+00:00

I confide in one person closest to me that I trust. If it's something too delicate to share, I wait to discuss it with my husband when he's relaxed from work & chores

Irisandoleander · 2017-06-10T11:20:55+00:00

I need way more info here VBL.... it might help to use the questions from the side bar or at least give us a general understanding of the issue. We're all kind of anonymous here. Or if you're uncomfortable with that you can pop into the IRC chat today and talk to the ECs who hang out in there

APatriotsWomyn · 2017-06-10T19:06:10+00:00

I think yes, if there is a genuine need for support then others whom you both! trust need to be brought in. Preferably more distant family members.

HappyWifeLifeX · 2017-06-10T12:52:24+00:00

You are already not concerned with his privacy - hence you feeling this out. Use the format to describe the issue and try it as if he might happen upon it and read your words. Talking about problems with respect to the other person is key. Also, whining to feel better in the moment doesn't fix anything.

Title	When your partner has a problem
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	31
Date	June 10, 2017 8:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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