Hi Ladies-

I'm running into a problem that I could use some feedback on.

I've been dating a man for just shy of 2 months now.

Due to our schedules (Work- Kids etc) we generally have one evening a week. However I will stop by in the morning on my way to work (he lives between my house and my office) a couple times a week as well. So far its 2-3 times a week.

On to the issue- We almost always have sex the mornings that I stop by . Which I like and he definitely enjoys. However I cannot finish. Not a single time.

This is not a new problem- nor is it specific to him. I've never once orgasmed in the morning hours - the heart is willing but the body just doesn't get the message. Evenings - I have a much much easier time.

I've told him about this. He was aware before I ever stopped over in the morning, but it's starting to cause a couple of problems.

  1. When we get together for an evening I have no issue finishing at all (we both have a great time)- but the schedule(s) makes this fairly rare. I have to admit that I'm not feeling fulfilled. I've been trying a few things to get my body in gear - but am having no success so far.

I've tried-

  • No Fap.
  • More sleep - get a solid 8 most nights.
  • Toys (even ones that work in the evening haven't done the trick)
  • More Time/Longer Sessions

I was going to try switching my gym time to the morning - but that gets to be way too early.

I would love to know if anyone else has this issue and if you were able to cure it.

As to not feeling fulfilled- I think it just feels lonely. Even though he's great and I very much enjoy the closeness with him- its starting to wear on me.

  1. I'm fairly certain it's wearing on him a bit as well. Even though he knew about it before- I think he secretly thought he could cure me. I've involved him in my experiments to figure it out and that's been fun.

Any ideas on how to NOT bring him down with this?

To sum it up- I'm looking for ideas on how to cure it my timing issue AND not bring my guy down.