I'm 25F my bf is 25 M. We've been together for 3 1/2 years. I hasn't been the easiest in some ways . Has any women had issue with sacrificing some of their wants for their partner..not anything fundamental. But small personal selfish things. My bf is saying even tho he's not ready just yet he wants to marry me and have kids but he's having a hard time seeing us actually getting married if I'm not able to be more peaceful and give more. I have a thing where I need a lot of alone time. And I also have trust issues as well with letting him lead so it makes it very hard to be in a relationship and I understand that. I'm not saying he's perfect but this is about me and my flaws. I really want this relationship to work. I guess im just looking for advice on how to be better.