I've been lurking on TRP and more so RPW the last few days and have been totally enthralled with everything I've found once I opened my eyes.

I was one of those women thinking she was one above the rest until realizing that I most definitely have some very undesirable traits and have been brain washed by media/pop culture to believe my actions have been just. Believing in some feminist ways (something I never even really thought I was doing) was making me a bitchy, frustrated and ruining my sex life while demasculating my SO.

Seeing a community with women who genuinely care about their men and their feelings and not being selfish is very refreshing and motivating to help me recover my damaged LTR. I am very excited to become the woman my man deserves since he treats me so well.

Maybe in time I will introduce him to TRP, but for now I am going to try to just work on myself and see what happens to his confidence and leadership skills in the process.

I will end with a question; how do you ladies stay motivated to keep your SMV up? I'm about to hit my wall (if I haven't already) and I really need to start taking care of myself properly. I've tried many times, but I just keep failing myself, I just don't seem to care enough about myself I guess. Maybe this new change in my way of thinking (trying to be more rp) alone will be helpful, but only time will tell with that I suppose.

TL/DR: Hi I'm new, love you guys. How do you keep motivated to stay on top of your SMV?