Do men always prefer virgins?

NoMoreToBeDone · 2019-12-25T01:06:16+00:00

Men are like women. Each man is different from another and have different preferences. If you think all men prefer virgins, you are wrong. Kind of like not all women enjoy giving blowjobs.

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T02:54:01+00:00

Words like “always” and “never” are too strong for my liking. I think people can have their own judgements and preferences. An 18 year old virgin isn’t a big deal but 28 year old virgin? That could raise some eyebrows.

I was a virgin before I met my husband at 18 and sex was pretty bad in the beginning because I was really nervous but it got better (very good now) with time, practice and patience.

I do advice women to be selective about who their partners are. Heartbreaks suck and too many failed relationship can cause you to be bitter, which means emotional baggage for the next relationship.

jonmarli · 2019-12-25T01:48:18+00:00

Men absolutely can love women who have had sex with other men before. A dick isn't magic and it doesn't poison your vag.

Some women who sleep around end up with attachment issues or they get addicted to risky behavior. That isn't attractive. Someone who can't commit or who has repeated bad relationships isn't very attractive. Someone who has kids may not be as attractive. Someone with a lot of emotional baggage may not be as attractive. Women can avoid these things by being choosy about their sex partners, but the act of sex itself isn't often the deciding factor in a woman's attractiveness. Honestly, when men highly value "virginity" on its own, I think it often indicates insecurity or a perception of women as either Madonnas or whores.

Edit here to add that it can also certainly be a kink. There are definitely good guys with a healthy view of normal women who are still turned on by the idea of being someone's "one and only". It's just not universal by any means.

Fridgemagnetman · 2019-12-25T02:26:21+00:00

No. There are many reasons to not want a Virgin woman

PrincessTeex · 2019-12-25T01:02:14+00:00

I’ve always heard the opposite that they don’t like them because they’re not experienced. I ignore that though, I aim to save myself till marriage because of my own beliefs, not just for him.

Discussion10x · 2019-12-25T02:33:40+00:00

If I just want to fuck I like to fuck a girl with experience. If I want an ltr then I would choose a virgin or less experienced girl. The ability to pair bond decreases for each partner a woman has. It isn't the same for men. A woman with more sexual partners is more likely to divorce as well, likely due to the decreased pair bonding.

bonizzle · 2019-12-25T04:36:18+00:00

I was very hyper sexual as a teen and young adult because of trauma and a bad childhood. I met my now husband and it didn’t real bother him especially because none of it before was meaningful and some not completely consensual. To me sex only matters when it’s meaningful and he’s the first man to make me truly orgasm too. It’s 2019 so it shouldn’t matter. Maybe if incurable stds were involved that would be difficult and turn people away.

Fridgemagnetman · 2019-12-25T05:28:04+00:00

At my age (32) finding a woman of a similar age who is a virgin is a red flag

Manny1400 · 2019-12-25T01:52:49+00:00

I would say that most men don't want virgins. We want women with some experience, but not promiscuous women.

A girl with a few prior partners is probably best

A girl with 10+ is another story, but even then it can work out

raymondreamer · 2019-12-25T01:37:58+00:00

I would never be with a virgin. I want a girl who has been through a little bit of a slut phase so she knows what’s out there, so that when she picks me - she has reference points for what she does and doesn’t like.

If she chooses me after she’s had it all, her attention is much more meaningful.

Pola_Lita · 2019-12-25T01:38:26+00:00

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liketworead · 2019-12-25T01:50:49+00:00

It’s a preference. But I don’t think you can tie how much they love a person based on virginity. You ever look at how many men who have married virgins and/or inexperienced women and fell deeply in love with who**s and ends up living his best life with her...

paladine76a · 2019-12-25T01:13:38+00:00

Hell no. Being with a virgin is like asking someone to build you a house when they have no experience doing it. They might get the job done, but it will be done better by hiring a professional contractor. Someone who has hammered a few nails in their time if ya catch my meaning.

Black---pilled · 2019-12-25T17:02:26+00:00

Im a man and all I can say is

As long as we like the woman's looks we don't give a damn for her past we just wanna smash em

Bluetinfoilhat · 2019-12-25T02:01:48+00:00

They want women with few partners but I actually think most would be opposed to a virgin since she doesn't have much experience and might be overly attached.

perfectedinterests · 2019-12-25T01:24:24+00:00

Yes. It may not bother them but they won't value you as much as if he was your first and last man. If you want to be seen as marriage material abso-fuckin-lutely.

Go look at /r/wherearethegoodmenat if you want to see what happens when women try to ride the CC then leverage that and 1-5 illegitimate babies into a "serious relstiomship".

Virginity is like wealth, class, gold, modesty and well-maintained antique cars. They never go out of style.

Would you value (and pay for ) a 1994 Nissan with 13 owners, cigarette burns on the seats, it reeks of an ashtray, has a gasket leak and needs body and engine work..

That wants to be bought for 60,000 as if it's new,

Or..

The 2020 Mercedes Benz S-class, that still has the plastic on it, that new car smile, and it has never been driven before?

You be the judge and tell me which car you would value more, and why.

A "gift" that is wrapped up and given again to many people loses value and depreciates quickly after person two.

https://www.letsrun.com/forum/flat_read.php?thread=7649910&amp;page=5

I've met late teens/ early twenties women who gave their pictures to other out freely and performed sexual acts (as a cam girl) have an ncount of 3, has had fwb's and spoke of sex in the first convo (I listened politely feigning interest and hiding my disgust, principles and values )

-> who is now wanting to "be taken seriously and find a man that will loved her and marry her " and I very bluntly told her that I'm not interested and that actions have consequences. Virginity is a major issue for me, and No hymen, no diamond. So That is a deal breaker and no I would never value her as I would a woman with better values, or see her as Worthy of the Ring. At least my ring. I reject many of girls weekly so I can afford to this. The Virginity thing is probably the biggest reason, then comes feminism, or not wanting to be a submissive house wife, being child-free, not wanting or being able to cook, or the ones that feign traditional conservative values but have a cum-stained past. I ask these things up front.Why waste my time and energy on a first date if she ain't even worthy of that haha? I know what I want and what I don't. I refuse to marry a woman that is slutty with other men. She can be as sluttty as she wants to be with me , and I'm just being honest. I love it. But not with others. I don't share and If she doesn't like it, she can kick kitty litter and feed those cats, and work on breeding those bastard kids...

All of these I listed aren't exactly the kind of women that are worthy of carrying my children. Nor carrying my Name. Nor being my Wife. If you plant bad seeds, you reap bad fruit if you get my drift.

The values make the man and woman, and YES, all men judge you by your sexual past. Just as women judge me by my looks, power, and station in life.

Don't even try to lie about it. It infuriates me when women try to be something they not. Just admit everything so I don't waste my time on someone who I'm not lookKing for. And no, I don't wanna hear a sob story. Actions not words. So Be honest but also be prudent. Men care about sex like women care about money. It's that simple. And no, if they say they are fine with it, it's just usually because they are fine with hitting it and quitting it. They are fine with casual, and they will not even talk about marriage up front as every man wants to be the one to de flower HIS future wife and potential mother of his kids. Anyone that tells you otherwise is trying to bs you so he can have you relax and then he can Hit it and he will quit it too.

TLDR: Truth hurts. More dicks you take, less marriage-minded men take you seriously for marriage. Any woman that has guy friends, or has even given a blowjob much less full on anal or vaginal sex is rejected with extreme prejudice. Unless the goal is to just fuck her. See link- https://www.letsrun.com/forum/flat_read.php?thread=7649910&amp;page=5

Just my .02.

masterdarthrevan · 2019-12-25T02:50:53+00:00

I'd rather a woman with more experience than less

RedPillMissionary · 2019-12-25T02:58:30+00:00

If the goal is marriage, then yes, the average man would prefer no one else has had a chance to seduce his wife. The fellas commenting in here are not interested in marriage

Title	Do men always prefer virgins?
Author	benovelent210
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Date	December 25, 2019 1:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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