I'm doing a version of "plate spinning" and having an affair on my husband with a really hot doctor. I don't feel bad about it. He gives me additional help for piano lessons and the like for my kids. He's discreet and understands and even cares about my kids believe it or not. I don't know how much longer this is going to last but it's been amazing. I have a really high libido and my husband is great but often too tired to have sex and also doesn't make as much money as I would like him too. He's also prematurely balding and I hate it.

Anyone here have any advice for how I can keep this a secret for as long as possible? And don't bother guilt tripping me about it, what he doesn't know can't hurt him and if it weren't this doctor, I'd be fucking another hot guy. I'm only this hot and young and have this kind of energy once, and when it's gone it's gone so I'm gonna have a blast before I throw it in and settle down.