My husband and I live in China and we've been stuck in the house for about a month. We're fine, and our area has very few cases of coronavirus. We're also NOT under official quarantine and never have been, but shops have been closed and the advice from our governments and the local one involves staying indoors.

I wanted to ask you ladies what you would do in my situation to help your husband to still like you while you are each other's only human contact for this period of time? Obviously this isn't exactly a normal situation but here we are. And it might be helpful to others in future if this situation gets bigger.

I cook 100% of our meals and give him space every day to be alone, and I clean and disinfect our apartment every day. I also practice decent STFU but it's hard because the situation is stressful so I'm not as disciplined as I perhaps should be on that front (mostly just the last week, crying sometimes over things that can't be fixed and carrying on with voicing worries).

Overall, we've done really well and haven't been fighting at all despite being in the same rooms for 34 days at this point. We don't normally fight since I adopted RPW principles a couple years ago, but I also want to make this a productive time for us as a couple.

What kinds of things would you do in this situation?