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cxj · 2016-02-18T00:00:23+00:00

The problem here is that you used to send them and now you don't. This is almost certainly perceived as waning interest. If you've already sent a bunch you've already taken the risk, if he's the type to save them he did and there's no taking them back, and if he's the type to leak them after a breakup there is nothing you can do at this point.

If he was going to leak them he probably would have already, so why not send more? I don't see how there is any additional risk in doing so. It seems like you took a risk early on to try and get commitment from an attractive guy, but now that you have him don't feel like keeping that up. Many women do things like this but if you stop sending him nudes now, it's possible hell suspect you'll withdraw other things in the future, especially after a marriage.

2016-02-17T21:57:21+00:00

I send them to my husband but we've been married for... Like six and a half years. I know he wouldn't show them or post them. Causal dating is a no no and I think girls today are so stupid for sending them. If you're in a LTR (2+ years is LTR to me) then that's different. But just remember some guys turn into morons and jerks after a break up.

blondie_brownie · 2016-02-17T22:20:56+00:00

Do you guys have Snapchat? I know that your pics are still floating around the internet and that he can screenshot your photo, but if you've been together for 3 years, he should respect when you ask him not to. You can also buy a sexy mask and wear that in every picture, or not put your face in it.

cxj · 2016-02-18T01:54:18+00:00

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VintageVee · 2016-02-17T22:27:11+00:00

You can send suggestive pics without them actually being nude. Or better yet, sexy texts x

little_red_ · 2016-02-17T22:20:35+00:00

what is inappropriate about showing your SO your naked body?

Wowimo · 2016-02-18T00:25:30+00:00

Send more artistic type nudes or suggestive. I don't think it is "bad girl" in the context of a marriage or LTR. However, I never ever put my face in any pictures or video. My husband gets pics and they are non-face only. Sometimes he even makes videos and he even follows the no face rule then.

PhantomDream09 · 2016-02-17T22:46:09+00:00

Do you have plans to move closer together? If so, when will that happen?

cats_or_get_out · 2016-02-18T00:24:12+00:00

I don't take (nor have I ever taken) nude photos. My husband has deployed 6 times (6+ months each time). I don't feel comfortable taking a photograph that I don't want my parents or my daughter to stumble on accidentally.

He has access to porn. He can see that if he wants to. I think keeping my body restricted to "in person" viewing helps keep a bit of the mystery for us. (Everyone is different though. Some spouses are into it. It's just something I won't do.)

SoonToBeMrsHim · 2016-02-17T23:11:26+00:00

I would suggest the app cyber dust. My friend uses it to send me baby pics so she can keep her kid off social media.

cakeforallofyou · 2016-02-17T21:49:13+00:00

How long have you guys been together? I'd save nudes for after you're married, or at least engaged, to be honest. The risk is too high without some serious commitment, and you run the risk of looking like the sort of woman who sends nudes to bfs...ie, not wife material.

Title	Photos
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Upvotes	6
Comments	36
Date	February 17, 2016 9:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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