I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months. He is 38 and I am 18. We moved into a house together and both have talked about wanting something serious. It feels like he’s not that into me anymore. He hasn’t been taking me out on as many dates and we don’t spend a lot of quality time together. He says he is too stressed since he is always working on getting the house situated and he has his own business. I understand that it is hard to be present with all that is on his plate but I want to feel special and like a priority. I believe two people have to put into a relationship for it to keep growing. It feels like he is taking me for granted since I cook and clean for him and he can get sex whenever he wants. He is always on his phone and hardly ever present with me. It feels like we are roommates at this point. I feel like the relationship is conditional: he likes what I do for him, but he isn’t in love with who I am as a person. I am a very deep and emotional person and love a deep, emotional connection. He’s not very affectionate or deep. Ive talked to him about all of this before. I don’t know if things will change or it’s a lost cause. I want things to work but if things don’t get better, I don’t know how long I can not have my needs met. I also wonder if he’s cheating on me and my mind is always thinking those thoughts.