I'm a 21 year old male, with very limited experience with the opposite sex. I used to be sad/frustrated at this lack of experience, but now that I think about, maybe being celibate isn't so bad. No STD scares, no pregnancy scares, I never have to go out of my way to seek female approval, absolutely no stupid, petty, unnecessary drama in my life, no need to pursue quests of social climbing, no need to compromise my values and nature to please women, and largely free from the whims of female sexual preference. I still have my own individual goals and pursuits, but they're in line with my interests and values, not necessarily women's.