So, this has come up in the sub before, but I'd still be interested to see how different guys have dealt with this issue.

One of the main things that really illustrated the reality of RP principles was being drunk.

When I was drunk I didn't give a fuck. I would say outrageous things. Escalate. Touch. Deflect shit tests. Etc etc. With a good buzz I'd feel like James Bond or something. It was like my spinach.

The problem I'm having is that I have to go sober for about 3 months (long story) and it's been eye opening.

I have realized that, while not an alcoholic, I am certainly alcohol dependent in dealing with women. Almost all of my successes have been while intoxicated to some degree.

I've been trying to do the same things sober for a few weeks (everything from strip clubs, to concerts, to bars and parties) and it has not been easy. I feel awkward, nervous and baked. I have a burning desire to take that edge off with a drink. It's pathetic.

On the plus side, I've found that I enjoy my time in the gym far more now as it is one of the few things that gets me out of my head reliably. Still, that doesn't turn off the incessant chatter in my head when it comes to women.

Has anybody here found a way to induce that state of joy, confidence and freedom that comes with a good buzz without alcohol? Any mindhacky type things that work?