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Beta husband gets cheated on

g_ownt
May 20, 2014
108 upvotes
/r/TheRedPill
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Title Beta husband gets cheated on
Author

g_ownt
Upvotes 108
Comments 58
Date May 20, 2014 10:45 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/260ql1/beta_husband_gets_cheated_on/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/beta-husband-gets-cheated-on.15621
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[–]GoinOutWest181 points82 points83 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

"The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact."

[–]Talkshitgethit19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Seriously, it's 4chan, (I'm guessing, their random board). I don't know why everyone here thinks everything that is posted there is a fact.

[–]raffdd11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly I'm more likely to believe something posted on 4chan anonymously than something posted on reddit for upvotes and karma. Less incentive to lie about something imo.

[–]GabeTheImpaler6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

because it happens all the time in real life, so it makes sense to want to believe it

[–]hashtagpound2point20 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well this is a pretty boring story to make up. You have to take most things online with a grain of salt, but I'm not going to call bullshit when someone claims he got some guy's wife to cheat on him.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

especially when its such a common porn storyline lol

[–]slutpuppies4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Its still entertaining and something that could've and I'm sure does happen.

[–]big_ol_boners 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i think moot added this way back for 'legal' reasons

[–]Aalewis__-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/thatHappened

[–]AnotherLostCause109 points110 points111 points 12 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Why wouldn't she cheat, if she doesn't get caught she wins, if she does get caught he loses. Bonus if she gets knocked up, the white knights of government will force him to support someone else's kid. Nothing but sunshine for her.

[–]RockinRhombus53 points54 points55 points 12 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

While this particular story is most likely 99.9% fake, the point stands.

No negative repercussions for a woman cheating seemingly ever.

[–]Baridi28 points29 points30 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Christopher Titus once said:

"No fault states are always 50-50. You could walk in on your wife fucking a monkey. 50-50. The monkey may get a cut, I don't know."

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No fault states are more like whatever she wants she gets. My ex got everything she wanted and more, they would have ignored the laws and given her half my VA compensation if she had wanted it. She knew she would have gotten nothing, I would have burned everything of value and splattered my brains on her dads yard before I would be homeless again.

[–]dnietz2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is my understanding that you can get some form of No-Fault divorce in every single state now.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Which is why western marriage is just one big shit test.

[+][deleted] -10 points-9 points-8 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

That's a pretty beta Outlook.

My girlfriend knows the repercussions for cheating, because I am the prize. Not her.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My girlfriend knows the repercussions for cheating

and those are?

and thats only if you find out.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm gone fucking other women the next week.

If I find out? How good are you at reading people.

If shit seems off, tell her to hand over her phone. If she doesn't well then you know what to do.

***But wait you just downvoted me because you're too beta to demand anything including respect from a woman.

[–]AlmostRP4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She gets the money if she gets caught. Reward either way.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd say the plumber got the best reward here.

I couldn't give two shits about the girl. The husband is obviously beta as fuck. And doubly a retard for trusting her further than he could throw her.

Women will put up a front like they aren't hurt by the breakup/divorce. But they always want to come back if you're the alpha. Trust me. I have like 4 women I'm juggling, 3 have boyfriends.

Women understand psychological pain. I'd be paying that bitch to leave.

[–]AlmostRP1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You might be a really cool person, but you've made yourself into a real asshole by the way you type. I understand that you "don't give a fuck" or whatever it is that you want to say, but you bring nothing to the conversation.

Your prattling has fully distracted from what you might be able to contribute.

"Trust me, I've done this or that." Nobody gives a fuck around here. Especially when you follow it up with some pictures of the bitches you've you've spun, or shut the fuck up about it.

Aka, tits or gtfo.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's perfectly fine.

Stoop to my level ;D

[–]shuritsen-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That's a hella alpha outlook on it. I don't understand why you're being downvoted. Your comment is LITERALLY 60% of this entire subreddit boiled down in a few sentences.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I don't know why I'm being downvoted either.

I'm just telling it like it is. My girlfriend has a healthy fear of cheating on me because she knows I will leave her and have another girl next week if she does.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Okay, I will explain it to you, since you don't seem to get it. You are being downvoted because you are talking GF, he is talking WIFE. Specifically the post you replied to was about a marriage in a no fault state where she gets 50% if she cheats. With a GF it is much, much easier to keep the soft dread game going or be the one willing to leave if she steps out of line. With a wife, it's much harder - especially when she knows you are obligated to finance her decision, whatever it may be.

We all agree you can keep a GF from cheating by being reasonably alpha. It's just not relevant to the discussion; we are talking about married couples and the betas who ring'd up the girl. Coming in talking about how you keep your GF in check doesn't have anything to do with the post you were responding to, hence the DVs. I agree people on here have a sort of learned helplessness and will dogmatically reject that you can do things to keep your LTR faithful.

But a married beta - or even an alpha, Mike Tyson's wife fucked around on him - loses the ability to leverage what you are talking about. Married men, by default, are in the Beta bucks role with their wife. They might be in the alpha fucks role too, but when you occupy that provider role with a legal contract saying that you will provide regardless of what she does... surely you understand this "make sure she knows I will leave!" strategy cannot be leveraged nearly as much.

[+][deleted] -8 points-7 points-6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's still relevant. He should have kept her in check.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Way to miss the point entirely...

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you're being downvoted because the whole point of the cost-benefit analysis on her options is because this guy is an already established beta. that's the point.

[–]watersign7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol, i like the ending. i have other stories but they aren't interesting. haahha

[–]TeasingPenguin15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

It's simple and should be common sense to everybody...

She doesn't respect him so she will cheat on him as well as walk all over him and run the house they both own

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

She doesn't respect him

This so much. My wifes friend is in a LTR with the father of her baby. Totally beta type of guy. Anyway, my wifes friend is always calling me when she needs male advice/direction. She called me to determine the paint color of THEIR bedroom. She talks down on her man, even complaining about their sex life to my wife. She doesnt respect him at all, and probably never will.

[–]Joshuas6x5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

For anyone who wants a reference. I am actually mates with them all and this is basically how the girl acts when not around the bf:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IsMgJ-btTJ8

[–]goatfishsandwich0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can attest to this.

[–]watersign-4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

perfeect opportunity to capitalise. women LOVE being told what to do

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Its weird though, because when Im alone with the dude, he seems to have some confidence and complains about the stupid shit his girl does, but doesnt tell them to her.

[–]watersign10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

hes afraid of losing her. i have beta friends like this, theyre still wit the same girl they lost their virginity too and think its the only pussy in the world.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thing about it is she says shes into him, but wants him to man up (obviously), and I've been kind of teaching him some TRP concepts. Some he uses, some he doesnt.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh... Sounds like she doesn't respect him at all. Continue to educate this young man, maybe he will open his eyes and realize one day.

[–]WhiteRi0T9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why is everybody here talking about a story that never happened?

[–]theozoph17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So simple it confines to science :

beta => cuckold

[–]LAMFF 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Plumbers will give your wife the piping she needs.

[–]1BaeCaughtMeJackinOff[🍰] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

gotta lay quality pipe

[–]smokeybehr1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You know she loves to hit that pipe.

[–]cbnyc01 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This needs some caulk.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or crack

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

a lot of trolls pointing out this is not true....

any decent looking guy has been hit by married women, why would this story be so exceptional?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. Honestly it's too mundane to be fake. Just because it's 4chan, people act like they're lying if they say the sky is blue.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm willing to bet she's nearing post-wall status

[–]a_chill_bro1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The solution is so easy: Don't ever get married. Ever.

[–]PlebDestroyer4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Anyone have a link to the misc post about the couple that misced? They married as virgins and she cheated on him. The entire misc warned him especially after she posted racy photos (on bb. Com) but he said she just wanted her physique critiques. But of course the misc was right and she married one of his friends a year or two later.

[–]arcbound10 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

If you are a woman in the mostly male space of the misc, where crude jokes and the hierarchal nature of men reigns supreme, you are most definitely an attention whore.

[–]PlebDestroyer0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hmm there was a post talking about non attention whore miscers a while ago

[–]femmefatale12 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You won't know that a non attention whore miscer is a woman.

[–]Eifersuchtig2 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

whoa

[–]blazingcopper0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was aware

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ahh...it's this kind of house

after TRP i have a lot of those moments when relationships make sense to me more and more often

[–]bassivemalls-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

.> Implying any greentext story on 4chan has any shred of truth to it.

[–]raffdd2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

.> Implying that stories told on r/theredpill are any more believable.

Who's more likely to make up a story? Someone posting anonymously, or someone doing it for upvotes and karma?

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