Two notes before I begin:
If you want to turn this into Stormfront LiteTM , go for it. Doesn't really do anything except demonstrate your ignorance.
If you want to turn this into Betamale Race Bitching HourTM , go for it. Doesn't really do anything except demonstrate your weakness.
Some people come on here and cry about how TRP isn't viable because of [insert excuse here] , this post is to address the common excuse of "well I'm a [insert minority] so I cant win!"
This post covers three areas:
The ultimate aspiration should be total self control.
Attraction cannot be negotiated.
Your value is determined by other people. That is what it means to live among humans. Ignore that at your own peril.
Total Self Control
As a Black ManTM , this principle does not vary at all. TRP is about understanding the relationships between men and women and then mastering yourself so that you are better able to navigate those currents. Many of us (men in general) have not been taught the value of self-mastery - especially when sex is thrown into the equation. Since this principle does not vary based on ethnicity, I will mention one thing then move on:
Being in the anger phase and allowing it to control you is just as bad as being a beta and allowing the pussy to control you. Both are a lack of self control and self-mastery - both are removing your outcome independence and allowing women to dictate your actions.
Attraction Cannot Be Negotiated
Do not mistake improving your value for negotiation. The first is a reflection of your individual improvement and is focused on your relationship with yourself whereas the second is a bargaining tool that is based on your relationship with a woman. From Wikipedia:
Negotiation - a dialogue between two or more people or parties intended to reach a mutually beneficial outcome, resolve points of difference, to gain advantage for an individual or collective, or to craft outcomes to satisfy various interests.
If you attempt to negotiate attraction, you will fail. Her interests (resources, time, attention) will always come before yours (sex). That principle is the same, regardless of ethnicity.
Where things differ for minorities is that, in western society, some people are socially conditioned to shut us down due to various stigmas. To that, you know what I say?
"So the fuck what?"
There are three reasons that it is a bullshit excuse that betas use:
There are roughly 158 million women in the U.S. and unless every one of them is like "eww no" you have no excuse. Just move on to the next.
There are many other things that can overcome racial bias. Personally, I found that muscles and a solid vocabulary usually do the trick. YMMV. I hear that having shit tons of money is also beneficial, but I cannot speak to that.
There are women who are into minorities (I tend to avoid these women because I am a human and not some sexual fetish, but to each their own).
If you are getting constantly turned down, it isn't because you are a minority, it is because you are low value and aren't doing the necessary things to overcome that stigma. I am not saying that it doesn't exist - I am saying that life isn't fair but bitching about it doesn't get you anywhere.
Your value is determined by other people.
You are a hairless ape living among other hairless apes. Congratulations. In this society, people will place worth on who you are based on how you contribute to society, how you make them feel, etc. This is inescapable. You cannot avoid it unless you cease to interact with people.
The mistake here is that a lot of men say "I should be loved for being who I am!" This is a mistake that is born from a lie that we have been told our whole lives - that we should just "be ourselves". For non-minorities the message, while a lie from the pits of hell, is not a confusing one.
For minorities, it is a confusing message. There are those who would say "be yourself" and others who say "you aren't good enough because you are a minority". So what is the solution (in regards to TRP and women)?
Be the best you that you can be. Understand that there are things about yourself that you cannot change, and influence the things you can. Understand that there are people who will always place a negative value on you based on those uncontrollable factors - just remember that if you develop your controllable factors to the point where your value is high enough, those people cannot compete with you because attraction cannot be negotiated.
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