Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha male

My previous post was about how Beta Game is for yourself as well as a toolset for building rapport with other men. I got some flak over it because of my definition of Beta. I’m still running by my definition of alpha and beta in my very first post, because I'm fucking right. If you haven’t read my first post in my history then read that first. Chapter 2 is unnecessary, it’s just for angry people that haven't yet accepted women for what they are.

In a nutshell, I am assigning alpha and beta to the two sides of women’s dualistic mating strategy. Arousal and Attraction are two different things for women. I've assigned alpha and beta to each side because it’s the distinction of the two that all things about female sexuality and female nature are derived. We work to that. There are arousing traits (alpha) and attractive traits (beta) in men. Consequently, there are arousing men (alpha) and attractive men (beta). One man is for fucking (alpha) and the other man is for comfort and security (beta). Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks. From defining alpha and beta this way we are able to work backwards to determine two distinct strategies men come up with to solve their reproductive problem. One I call Alpha Game and one I call Beta Game. Some men have Alpha Game and can pique her sexuality and other men have Beta Game to work her comfort and security. The Alpha man has the arousing (alpha) traits.

For this Chapter I am getting into the correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha male and getting the most out of your potential. I say your potential because different men have different potentials based on their looks, charisma, etc. This system will get the most out of you. It will get you doing more of the right things and less of the wrong things. But first, we have to talk about the incorrect way to "become" an Alpha male;

The incorrect way to “become” an Alpha male is believing you need to reinvent yourself as Alpha to be pigeon holed as Alpha. The incorrect way to apply the prism I outlined in First Post is to emulate an Alpha Archetype, to roleplay, to believe you need an identity change of any sort. It’s not only a bad idea, but it will backfire on you. Here are some reasons why this won’t work;

1. You’ll be dinging the congruity error alarm her in head. Something will seem off and you’ll end up being perceived as a douche and a tryhard. While you might initially get the act right, you’ll eventually be throwing together the wrong cues in the act and it won’t fit together in her head as a harmonious identity. An example of this would be if I told you to pretend to be a chicken for an hour. You might be amazing at acting like a chicken but there are times when your human behavior will inevitably seep through. Ding ding ding something isn’t right here!
2. You won’t keep up the act in the long term, because you won’t want to. You want to be accepted for who you are.
3. You aren’t the Archetype. It’s not you. You can’t just put on a jacket, pop your collar up and pretend you’re James Dean in Rebel Without a Cause.

Trying to reinvent yourself is doing it backwards because people don’t react to a character. The way you imagine yourself doesn't just get inserted into other people's heads. Instead, people pick up on the cues you give them and from that they create an image of you in their head. You aren’t who you think you are. You are an idea in everyone else’s head. If 1000 people know you, there are 1000 different ideas of you out there. Everyone that knows you has a different image of you and they each made one based on the cues you gave them. They create the character, you can only control the cues. That’s how this is going to work. The cues you require to create an Alpha character are what I discussed in my first post. That means getting in physical shape and working on everything related to your self-confidence cues.

Self-confidence, arrogance, cockiness, etc are on the arousal (alpha) side of the dichotomy because to a woman's lizard-brain they indicate historical success and historical competence. Success and competence builds confidence. So a woman doesn't have to witness a man be successful and competent to 'know' he is, her lizard-brain picks up on the confidence cues which indicate he operates well in this world and he fucking owns it. That's good genetic stock. That's arousing.

Hence, the correct way to apply the prism is directly managing what cues you give through your actions and reactions (to shit tests). You’re not concerned about being Alpha. You’re concerned about breaking down how you talk and behave in the moment and what kind of cues they are sending. You need a hyper-awareness of the cues and traits you project out day to day and in the moment. You need to reflect back on your past and think about the reasoning behind why you said and acted in certain ways. What cues were you trying to give out at the time? Did you do it to give the cue you were a nice person? Maybe you were trying to give the cue you were a funny person? Or smart? educated? generous? tough? cool? If you gave out Beta cues (as defined in my first post) then you are going to have a Beta image created of you and get pigeon holed as a Beta male. Cut them all out. The cues you need to give out are the Alpha cues. Alpha cues are confidence related. They are showing you have an abundance mentality and you’ve got frame (ie. you're composed and in self-control). You aren’t trying to give the cue you're tough, cool, sexy, etc. That's roleplaying an Archetype. You're being yourself but you need to become hyper-aware of opportunities to show confidence cues as they present themselves. That’s not to say you can’t be kind, funny, smart, etc. But they need to be done in a way that you're not trying make those the cues you're trying to project. It’s best if you can be funny or smart in a frame that shows your confidence. You’re being funny, but in a cocky way. You said something smart, but the point was to show your confidence and not show off how smart you are. You want to be hyper-aware of opportunities to show confidence and use them when they come. You're just out there, being you, but re-framing things to show confidence cues. Body language and how you talk is most of it. Stop trying to show you're interesting, funny, smart, nice, etc. Those cues you need to hold back on.

The distinction I'm making between alpha identity and alpha cue is very important. If I told you to go out and convince the public you're an angry guy, the wrong way would be to try to imagine yourself as an angry person and go out there and roleplay as one. The right way is to be yourself but when opportunities to show anger present themselves, you take advantage of it. If someone comes up to you "Excuse me sir, a moment of your time?" You might snap back "I don't have time for this shit right now!". That's you responding with an anger cue without actually being angry. That guy is going to think to himself "this dude is fucking pissed off!"

She is creating her own Alpha Archetype of you based on the confidence cues you give. That’s getting the ball rolling. You have to be hyper-aware of your body language, of how you make eye contact, of speaking directly. Each one done correctly is a point for Alpha cues and contributes to the image of you as an Alpha. Any PUA training you look up are just scripts around projecting confidence cues. PUA tactics will change every few years but they always remain scripts around confidence cues.

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Setting up your frame of mind this way allows you to be on guard for shit tests which will be thrown at you. You’re already in the frame of mind of being hyper-aware of the cues you send out. You’ll already be in the frame of mind for searching for opportunities of confidence cues as your default mode. When she throws her shit tests at you, you’re already mentally prepared. This method of training your cues works well because shit tests will fall flat when you stop your mind to defaulting to Beta cues. You're going to default to Beta cues if you try to roleplay and act as an Alpha Archetype. With practice of self-awareness on your confidence cues, it becomes natural over time, it becomes second nature.

I said before that women will create their own image of an Alpha in their head. The image of the Alpha Archetype created of you will depend on everything else about you. Maybe you’re a guy with face tattoos, or you dress up in business clothes, or you’re a boxer, or you’re a tourist guide, etc. All the things about you will contribute to the image other people create of you. If a thousand people read this post and implemented this method correctly there would be a thousand different brands of an alpha male. You're just being you, but re-framing your cues.

If you aren’t already out trying game on woman then try “becoming” Alpha this way in your other settings. Work, College, wherever. You’ll notice you’ll be treated differently when you break down and itemize what you do around confidence cues and deliberately hold back other cues. When you see the results it will give you real confidence to test this out in other environments. You do this for awhile and it will just become normal operating procedure.

If you struggle to think about what confidence cues are, I think it helps if you reflect back on your past and think about the cues you used to deliberately give and how they could have been reframed to project confidence rather than how funny/smart/kind/interesting you were trying to be. It also helps if you think about highly confident people you know and break down what exactly they did that gave the confidence cue. This is all about separating the traits/cues from the behavior.

I want to end my post by using this method for awareness of grifters in the online community. You see some Redpill content creators wearing sun glasses and making it blatant they're smoking and being cool while doing their podcast, as if they're trying to project an identity. Do you think these guys really get it? Do you think normal women can't pick up on this kind of roleplay?