I came across this example of the way women attempt to subtly frame the tone of relationships while browsing r/all.

http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1399125

The tl’dr of the entire thread based on her comments is a girl met a guy at a bar, she told him in the beginning ‘we’re not having sex’, they went back to her place to watch a movie, he tried to f-close a few times and then left after she spurned his advances and fell asleep.

The comments section is littered with an echochamber about how he could have “gotten some” if he would have just been patient and waited. Also there’s plenty of sarcastic comments about how nice guys expect pussy.

This reinforces the message that women are the prize. That he could have “got some” if he would have just waited on her terms. Women want to betatize men into playing their game.

This was one of the top comments on the thread:

Well, "buh bye". I don't get it. He's basically saying "I want sex, but I don't want to have to put in any effort to get it". I'm sure if he'd waited and was respectful, it may well have happened another night, and then a few more times after that and then a few more after that. Instead, he gets nothing. I honestly don't get it.

She wants him to cuddle with her all night and steal his emotional supplication while giving him exactly zero. She finds it perfectly okay to deny him sex, something he wants, but expect him to stay at her house while she sleeps and cuddle with her. Fuck that. This is the feminine imperative. If you haven’t already, listen to Patrice O’Neal’s audio on being a time ho:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA

Look at this situation instead as she could have “gotten some” emotional supplication in the form of cuddling if she would have been willing to have sex. Your time is important and you are important. She doesn’t get your time based on some bullshit future promise of sex. It isn’t worth it. Don’t ever base a relationship on the premise that you do things for her for the idea of regular sex. Ever.

The women on this thread don’t question her logic. They don’t question her decisions because they want to support the same power imbalance. This man hedged his bets and tried for the f-close and left when he knew he wasn’t going to get it. He did exactly the right thing. Notice that these women are talking about him. He displayed high value by bailing on that bitch when she wanted to treat him like a beta. I wouldn’t be surprised if she is texting with him right now setting up a second date. If he had supplicated he likely would have ended up in the friendzone or worse, in a deeply imbalanced relationship where neither the woman nor the man is happy. Always remember: Don’t be a time ho. Don’t supplicate. Don’t be afraid to next a bitch if she doesn’t give you what you want. You’re the prize, not her.