24 M bowing upon entering dojo of grown ass men First, thank you friends for the forum and community. Picking up women in person is now routine and IDGAF has worked wonders for my personal happiness. Pussy is abundant and never takes priority over my family, or friends who have treated me like family. I know who has my back when shit hits the fan.

summary:

met a feminist "Maria"

didn't compliment her "accomplishments"

get propositioned for second date

I reply with "your place or mine?"

Scheduled to fuck at her place

I delay because I'd rather hang out with the family

Maria shit tests, indicating she is "about to go on a date"

I tell her I could care less

The other guy "wins" this snowflake

set up: I recently posted in askTRP requesting an OKC profile critique. I followed their advice and stripped the profile down to: pictures, height, and weight. I have flown in to my home town to see my family, spending time with them is the primary goal. Of course, they also have shit to do, and a little pussy (in a vacuum) has never hurt a man.

Report: /u/GayLubeOil recommended adding the line: "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." This nets one message from a snarky thick girl "Ashley" (as we all know "thick" and "fat" are not interchangeable). She drains my nuts. She'd be plate material if I weren't on vacation... but I digress...

Other TRP users (you guys are cool but nobody has a username like GLO) recommended stripping the profile down to pictures. I do it. Traffic takes off, I no longer need to send messages. Their advice is sound, but with great volume comes unwanted noise.

Enter "Maria", she messages me saying "hi". I ask for name and number. (fuck small talk) Get number, set up date at bar

Maria arrives and is cute, but full of red flags:

Doesn't like beer

Has no wine knowledge (not sexy)

Feminist

Dropped out of women's studies program

Wears a bluetooth headset

White shorts WAYY before labor day

History of depression (no professional help sought, she "cured" herself)

History of purported abuse

Just sued ex-boss for sexual harassment and discrimination

Trying out for American Idol

Talked about several past hookups

Has restraining orders against exes

I'll stop here to be polite

When I finally get a word in, I tell Maria that "Feminism as we know it is harmful to women because it perpetuates a victim mentality." She a agrees. (We all know what would've happened if I said feminism was hurting society as a whole.) She proceeds to laugh at every tongue in cheek critique of her worldviews until I finally nope out.

Post-date transcript ("Date" was on Friday, I'm on a road trip with the family the entire time during this text exchange):

Maria: I had a lot of fun, lets meet again soon

Me: I'm available Wednesday, I like hearing Alicia Keys' fallin

Maria: I've been practicing, lets meet sooner

Me: I'm out of town til Sunday night, Monday?

Maria: How about Sunday night?

Me: Fine. no lipstick, pigtails, no panties, sundress. I drive

Maria: You have to earn that

Me: I already have, your place or mine?

Maria: WTF, what makes you think you earned that? What makes you think you can talk to someone like that?

Me:Tick Tock

Maria: see you at midnight.

Me: I'm hanging with the family. Another time.

Maria: I'm about to go on a date...

Me: Be sure to rinse up after.

Maria: He's my boyfriend now. Leave me alone or I'm calling the police.

Conclusion: PRE TRP, I would've thought I'd missed out on an opportunity, now I realize I've dodged a bullet.