Hello, TRP. Here's yet another field report that shows AWALT.

Backstory: Met a lawyer in a bar a month after a relationship ended last year. She was into me, I was just looking to date. She was fine with it, and we spent most weekends together. She knew I was dating other people, but she was not seeing anyone else (according to her. Take that for what it's worth.). We had great sexual chemistry, and for the most part we enjoyed each others' company.

3 months into this, she starts asking for more exclusivity, and I told her no, I was not ready for another relationship due to the nature of my traveling and I didn't want to do distance. She accepted that, but kept asking me to revisit the issue monthly.

6 months in, I met someone who I developed severe oneitis for, and dropped all my plates and went exclusive with this new girl (bad move, in retrospect). The lawyer gal was particularly devastated, because she thought she was "working her way into my heart." She kept asking what it was about this new girl that made her better, and I just told her we clicked better, had more things in common, etc. **(What I didn't mention she was hotter and younger, but of course that's really a nuke I didn't want to drop.)

We part ways, and I told her she was a lovely girl, and I wish her all the best. Well, the relationship with this new girl went well for about 3 months, I put her on a pedestal, and it collapsed, predictably. I have written about it before, so if you want the history there, go searching in my post history.

After I got my shit back together, I started trying to pull in new plates, and rekindled a couple old flames, including lawyer girl. She however made things clear she wanted to keep things just as friends and maintain boundaries, because she's seeing other people and I hurt her. We chatted for a bit here and there, and another 2 months later we ended up finding out we'd be in the same city for a weekend. We decided to hang out together, just as friends.

The Hangout- Immediately, things got awkward a bit when we met, because she told me that "Initially she thought it would've been fun to hook up with me, but as of 3 days ago she became exclusive with her new boyfriend." Then she proceeded to talk him up. Ten years older than me, owns three houses, many cars, incredibly successful, kind, and very "nice, almost too nice". I honestly felt she was attempting to make me jealous, and dangling the carrot of "I was planning on hooking up, but..." was her means of attempting to emotional tampon me. Plus she was texting him the entire time.

I considered her to be only a friend at this point anyways, but I had already put some time aside to spend with her and had nothing better to do, so I stuck around. I attempted basic kino while I told her about some of the other girls I had been seeing, mostly as humorous anecdotes. She responded to the touch, but was restraining herself. Halfway through the day though, I decided I didn't want to extend this to a whole weekend as it would be kind of a waste of time, so I went for the feels: "I'm sorry, I've got things to do back home, and I feel like I can't hang out with you much longer because you're still very attractive to me. I won't be able to respect you and your new boyfriend. I will try to make moves on you, so I should go." Suddenly her entire attitude changed. She stopped texting him, asked me not to go and said she would feel ditched. I started packing up my things and said that I still should go, and then gave her a hug.

Then she kissed me. She told me she was glad I was so honest, and she wanted me to stay. I kissed her back, and spent the rest of the weekend giving her mindblowing orgasms, and she paid for dinners. After the weekend was over, she went back to her BB boyfriend, took many happy pictures, and acted like nothing was wrong, and she didn't just cheat on him in the first few days of their relationship. This girl, who is a well paid professional, dating a wealthy guy, decided to sleep with me during her new relationship's cupcake phase simply because I re-established frame...and I'm not even very good at it yet. AWALT, gentlemen. If you give them tingles, they will come.

EDIT: I would also like to mention that at the end of the weekend, she said "I hope you don't think I'm a bad person or judge me for what we did. I'm normally not like that, you're just really special to me." Take from that what you will.