"Have A Mission" is...nuanced

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-07-14T12:45:16+00:00

not equity

Never have I been told Cash > Equity. Ever. Liquidity is useful but ALWAYS AIM FOR OWNERSHIP. Whether it’s making partner or making your IPO; Ownership is the most reliable factor to wealth generation.

mission-first thinking

The issue is thinking mission first can lead to being too aloof. As opposed to being “present.” However when you’re “executing” your mission plan DAILY it requires you being cognisant of the present.

It’s Balance. When you have a mission(or multiple) you manage your time accordingly. Having wealth. Having a family or plates. Instagtam Hi-lights. All these “missions” require time. They require you to master your daily output so you don’t have to stay up till 2am. That’s the beauty of balance. You can do an awful lot in day when you’re time efficient. Then what you don’t get done; there’s always tomorrow.

Godspeed and good luck!

offtheshitproductive · 2020-07-14T07:26:14+00:00

This makes sense if you care about getting women more then you care about your mission. Personally, I think the most efficient way of handling both is minimizing time with woman, and basically only meeting up for sex. If I want to relax and hang out I do it with the boys. If I want to fuck a girl, I show her a good time and do fun shit and then she shows me a good time. Having an LTR is too much work so I usually take about 24 hrs total every two weeks to fuck plates.

TeamLitten · 2020-07-14T14:00:46+00:00

People always talk about constantly being on a mission but then they forget to relax and enjoy life. I had a realization that I was so in my head about acting/being alpha, how my body looked, and analyzing conversations, etc. that I started dreading waking up every morning. Yesterday I decided that I’m gonna be more kind and forgiving to myself and that I can take a break from my mission every once in a while. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Taking breaks from your mission may be good as it could be beneficial to stop and smell the roses. I realized that I don’t need the best body, the most money, or the greatest mission because if you (at least for me) have a mission in mind, then you can’t relax until it’s done. I forget to enjoy life, which makes me REALLY unattractive

ComplexProjection · 2020-07-14T08:53:40+00:00

The thing is, a girl can't have sex with your job, your startup, your house, your degree, or even your PR's (and while she can have sex with your mannerbund, you don't want her to!). Don't get me wrong, all of those are good things---but you want her to have sex with you.

You don't realise how attractive is an unavailable man to a woman, and you also don't realise how unattractive is a man with nothing going on to a woman. Everything you have described will make her more wet than the Nil during rain season, because she will want to be part of your adventure.

So what are you? Basically: a brain, in a body, in clothes. What is the experience of being around you? Are you lively, or lost in thought? Is the body she sees strong? Is it relaxed? Have you slept? Are you smiling?

True, if you dedicate yourself to your mission but are living like an hermit or are just plain boring, you will have a hard time getting women. That's game, and it is important too.

My point is that focusing on a mission can compete with all of those. I was up until 2 last night working on a project, and it kind of ruined me today. Don't get me wrong, I was getting stuff done! It was worthwhile stuff! Will pay off in the future! But a girl can't have sex with your future---and even if she could, you wouldn't want her to.

It seems you are putting too much value on sex. A man focussed on his mission will have more sex than he can care.

Try to cancel a date with a woman because you have shit to do, and see how fast she will come back for the second date.

What I'm basically looking for is: is a girl pleasant to be around? Will I get a stiffy just from walking behind her? Is she affectionate? Can I talk to her?

Women want the same, or the male equivalent anyway. Yes---more is required of you in the long term. But you're not trying to check off boxes, you're trying to create an experience. And you---you, in the physical world, are that experience.

Men and women want different things in partners and in a relationship. This paragraph shows you still need to work on your understanding on sexual strategy for both sexes.

So take care of you. Get enough sleep. Eat well. Dress well. Seek cash*.

Well that's true.

You need less of a mission than you think. She can join you on your mission! So many chicks out there have no idea what to do with themselves they go to law school or whatever.

Chicks have no idea what to do with themselves because most of them are not driven. That's why they want YOU to have a mission and to be part of YOUR adventure. That's why women look for a men like men look for jobs.

Lots of girls out there would be perfectly fine with "He makes money, and I cook, clean, and fuck him"---if the "He" in that sentence is cheerful, well-dressed, and has a plan. If he's withdrawn, mind on work, etc., this becomes much, much less true.

Game is important, but being nice not that much. You are not here to entertain her, she has orbiters to do that. Orbiters to whom she will complain that you are a big meanie, while taking your cock at the same time.

arakouzo · 2020-07-14T14:04:41+00:00

Many men use the "mission" idea to hide from the fact that they are unattractive. They claim that women are less important than work, they work to try to bank money, they go to bed lonely, and they tell themselves that women would be a distraction or a waste of time. But deep down inside, they know that they would have great difficulty getting laid this week, and that there is nothing stopping a more attractive man from having sex this Saturday, and still doing whatever "mission" is so important to them.

Having sex with a woman is not some kind of monumental investment any more than stopping to eat dinner is wasting your life and destroying your mission. We have sexual needs. Being attractive enough to meet those needs is a necessary skill, just like knowing how to go to the grocery store, buy food, and cook yourself dinner. Learning how to buy groceries then doing so was not an unacceptable distraction from your "mission". Neither is having sex with a woman.

Whitified · 2020-07-14T10:14:44+00:00

The advice isn't technically wrong. We all should have a direction in life independent of women, regardless of what it is. The problem with the "have a mission" excuse tho is that it really is just another way of saying "Man Up". This is easily proven: Just tell them your "mission" in life is something they don't want to hear. Try the following:

1) Tell them your "mission" in life is something radical. Tell them you wish to defeat feminism. Or tell them you wish to be a professional MRA. You can even say your dream is to join ISIS and bomb innocents. Basically, you tell them your dream is to be something low-status or to be someone most would consider a "loser". Watch the rage that ensues. How dare you have a mission women won't approve of?

2) You tell them your mission is to not have a mission. Your "mission" is to be free. You can try telling them you just want to be mgtow, or to be like Captain Jack Sparrow and sail the seas for the rest of your life. You can even say you wish to get more men to boycott Marriage 2.0 with you. Are these not life goals too? Again, watch how they rage at your choices. How dare you have a mission women won't approve of?

Try it! Lol

Basically what's happening is the old saying of "Man Up" is getting more and more ineffective, so Tradcons (mostly Christians and NRX guys yes) now get men to Man Up using different ways. "Have a Mission" is just the latest version of this, but more will pop up as we head into the 2nd decade of the 21st century.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-14T15:41:22+00:00

You're trying to create an experience. And you---you, in the physical world, are that experience.

Unless you find a girl young and a she is a part of the entire journey to success, women don't give a fuck about the work you put in to get where you are. They care about what you are right now.

We're all at different points along our path. They only care about the experience of you at that moment. How you make them feel. What you provide to them. Where you can take them right then.

As the 3rd commandment states:

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Too many of the boys that come to TRP use this as an excuse to shun women. "I'm working on my mission. I ain't got time for women." And then they turn and jerk off to porn or wife up the first dumb ho that fucks them because they never understand that you can't truly focus on your mission until you learn how to get and fuck a lot of women.

So for all the boys coming here for the first time... straight up, your mission is to get women. As many of them as possible and keep working on getting better ones. At a certain point you'll realize that your mission will shift and you'll want a higher calling.

At that point you'll actually be able to focus on that higher calling because women won't require that much time or energy.

You can't reach a level of self-actualization and achieve a real mission until you've learned how to successfully attract and fuck women so you can move on from the base, carnal needs.

2020-07-14T14:23:27+00:00

you're trying to create an experience

Truly spoken like someone with a career in or adjecent to marketing.

kri8or · 2020-07-14T14:50:58+00:00

basically this post is about the present. Be present. We can be too caught up in our future, our plans, etc that we forget life is happening right now.

remember the meaning of “Self-improvement is masturbation”

le_wolfe · 2020-07-16T14:36:02+00:00

Nice line of thought. Haven't thought about it this way yet.

Jack0fDiamonds · 2020-07-14T19:27:04+00:00

Most "smart girls" or elite college educated women may be intelligent, but most of the time they are snobs.

I've had particularly bad luck with female scientists. They can do the research but I don't think they have much of an advantage in any other capacity.

diejager · 2020-07-14T21:26:51+00:00

Basically, TRP has different messages for different crowds: if you're just kind of doing nothing with your life, you need to change that, not just for her, but for you.

The not just for her part made me cringe. If you are not doing anything with your life, you need to change FOR YOU and ONLY FOR YOU.

The thing is, a girl can't have sex with your job, your startup, your house, your degree, or even your PR's (and while she can have sex with your mannerbund, you don't want her to!). Don't get me wrong, all of those are good things---but you want her to have sex with you.

They can't but they do it with you because of these things.

CommonKoala6 · 2020-07-15T13:51:19+00:00

Trying to dress nicely, eat, sleep well and smile to make women feel good and drag them to bed...?

Donno what about you, but I smell this post consist of 50% PUA and 50% simping.

Maybe that's only me, but I don't care what women think about me. I don't care about their feelings and thoughts.

I'm not trying to impress women in any way cause they are not center of my dreams and needs

antoniofelicemunro · 2020-07-14T15:44:27+00:00

Stop being a simp and caring so much about sex. You’ll get sex. Goals and success is far more important. Y’all gotta stop being such fucking simps.

Title	"Have A Mission" is...nuanced
Author	dropit_reborn
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Date	July 14, 2020 6:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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