I know full well that TRP emphasises on cutting toxic or beta friends from your life but I really want to help my friend. We were literally friends since the "sandbox" days and he's a great guy. Good looking, great banter and good heart but around last year he got into his first relationship with this chick (he's 18). At first it seemed like they were both really into each other so I was kinda happy for him but as time wore on, it became apparent that she literally controls everything he does.
She wants a ride? He's the personal chauffeur. She wants something? He'll probably buy it for her. She's also obsessive as fuck, if for one weekend he doesn't see her, she will fucking rage. I've heard from my friend that she will LITERALLY punch him in the face full strength and that she's done so many times, every time he doesn't do shit.
Our friends have told him, his parents have told him and I've told and tried to redpill him at least 3 times that he should immediately dump her and focus on getting some new girls that treat him better but every time he just doesn't get it. I really don't want to see him with her or God forbid, fucking marry her but I don't know how to get him to see that she's abusing him.
What would you do in my situation? If it really comes to the worst case scenario, I will cut him out of my life but I really want to see him not be in an abusive relationship because he's been a friend from day one.
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