I swallowed the pill about 6 months ago, and strangely it works. Spin those plates, remain in control, and always leave them wanting more.

Well, it works until you get attached. And that's where I am.

Started a FWB situation with a girl, and our actions never really aligned with our intentions. She said, I don't want a bf. I said I don't want a gf. A relationship based on sex; simple stuff. But three months later, a lot of nights spent together, trips out of town, and social gatherings, and I get this message:

sooo. I dont want to continue wasting your time and leading you on. as you've said multiple times, my actions dont support my words...and you are absolutely right, but my words are really how I feel. i dont think we should continue hooking up and spending time together.

Now with any of my other plates, I'd say, sure thing, off you go. But for some reason with this one, I can't shake it.

Maybe I need a good lecture, maybe I need my ass kicked, maybe I need to fuck 3 broads in 5 days, and in all likelihood, I should probably next her immediately.

So how do you guys deal with a case of oneitis? Is there anything wrong with being attached? Methods, advice, and a plan of action would be appreciated.