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How much does physical appearance matter in RPG?

ioncehadsexinapool

February 1, 2014
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Title How much does physical appearance matter in RPG?
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ioncehadsexinapool

Upvotes 10
Comments 23
Date February 1, 2014 7:04 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]TheYellowPill 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Anyone that tells you appearance doesn't matter is lying to themselves. However for a male, appearance is simply one of many components of attraction.

Attraction = looks, game, confidence, status, personality, money etc.

If you're lacking in one department e.g. looks, you must make up for it in another. But it's best to try to improve all components of attraction. Being well rounded can only improve your overall attraction.

[–]TheBrownChrisBrown 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men's looks are more about maintenance and heigene than women's are. 90% of your looks will be earned in the gym (unless you have godly genetics)

[–]Zebleblic 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Norse god genetics ftw.

[–]RedSunBlue 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's usually a +5 to charm.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Appearance is important for attraction. The fact that a good body boosts your confidence means doubly so.

[–]ioncehadsexinapool[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

yeah i mean i'm not ugly. I'm pretty average looking. It's just that a lot of guys i went to high school with have perfect bodies and i always hear girls getting panty pudding over it

[–]Evers89 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely. Good looking guys with a nice face have an undeniable advantage. This is partly why I lost most of my fat. It helps amazingly with the level of self esteem and goal setting.

On the flip side, there are men I know that have those traits, but cannot for the life of them game a girl. They're missing other key factors to bring a girl into bed that being here will teach you pretty quickly. Social skills will bring you more fruit in life than just getting jacked, despite it's obvious advantages.

[–]Cerulean35 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The stereotype is nice guys are neck beards, so yes a built body would be more attractive.

[–]PlusGoody 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Every woman has two red lines for men's appearance: the sexual red line (beyond which she can't be attracted, no matter what else is going on) and the social red line (the line beyond which even if she's attracted, she will refuse a man in order to defend her own social standing.)

This is bad for you if your appearance deficits are immutable (shortness, deformities) but good if they are anything else. You can be very weird looking and plenty of women will think you're hot if you have the right attitude. Plastic surgery is quite cheap and very effective. Plenty of woman don't mind chunky dudes, and you can always lose weight. The age disparity that becomes preclusive is extreme.

[–]ioncehadsexinapool[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Is that why i get hit on by older women? im 19 and rarely get hit on by girls my age. But it seems as though older women (late 20's to late 30's) will approach me, or making their thoughts and attraction obvious. Idk maybe its a coincidence

[–]Humble_harpdarp 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Older women hitting on you probably isn't good.

[–]blazingblue16 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Older women are running out of time on their biological clocks. They want your young and viable sperm.

[–]bitlex 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Short, balding, and not hung guy here. Obviously you should always try to be the best that you can possibly be. But just know that physical disadvantages do matter. If you have all the things I listed, you're going to be limited on the quality of women you can get.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

IMO its the prime motivator.

Physical appearance gets your foot in the door. If you dont have that she wont give a shit what car you drive or how indifferent you are to her shit tests.

Someone who is in the market for a new 5 series doesnt really care if the new Dacia comes with free air conditioning.

[–]abcd_z 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh, I wouldn't worry about it. If you're playing a character with low charisma you can either reroll your character (if the DM lets you) or just let another party member take care of the NPC interactions.

Of course, if you're playing a solo campaign, things get a little trickier.

EDIT: Oh! You meant "Red Pill Game", not "Role-Playing Game".

[–]10199 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/

[–]Cosmicandy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You might have more of a bumpy ride to begin with if you look totally mediocre. Expect more shit-testing. Hold frame, spit game and you'll be good.

It matters, but it doesn't matter anywhere near as much as it does for women. Do what you can to improve your appearance but don't fret if you don't look like the front cover of GQ.

Also in future, you might want to ask this sort of question on /r/askTRP.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't necessarily need it, but it will help a lot.

[–]MartialWay 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By "RPG" I assume you mean Red Pill Game. Unfortunately, it's a bad question, because there are many different styles of Game, and a Redpiller is supposed to use the one that works best for him. "Red Pill" is supposed to just be a recognition of reality for what it is, so the proper question would be "How much does physical appearance matter in Game" period.

[–]szip88 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ever since I changed my diet, quit smoking cigs and started doing abs/core for 20 mins then workout for 45mins-1hr for 5-6 days a week, I am starting to see results. Not only I'm feeling healthier, I feel way more confident and looking at the progress....I'm smiling just thinking about summer. Just remember diet is everything....You are what You eat.

[–]tenpointsix 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

RPG? You have over-acronymization syntrome, or OAS.

Seek help immediately.

Also lurk moar.

Downvoted.

[–]fffffl 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Being bigger (jacked) than other guys is great. Guys think twice about fucking with you and will respect you. Girls will eye fuck you and want to grind your cock in clubs.

Dudes try to pick up my girl infront of me when I'm skinny and are willing to get into a fight over minor slights

[–]Afroemo -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

about fifty fifty

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