***TLDR: Holding frame and having zero tolerance for bullshit has earned me a devoted sex pet ***

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At some point in your relationship with a girl, she will throw some very unreasonable behaviour at you. No matter how rationally you react, she will try and frame you as being the unreasonable/insensitive asshole. This is what you do:

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  1. Do not lose your cool, reply to whatever she says or does calmly (unless she gets very violent, then exit ASAP);
  2. Do not give in to unreasonable demands, do not apologise for anything you shouldn't apologise for;
  3. If she persists with her behaviour, and/or does not apologise, ghost her (no contact anywhere, do not watch her insta stories, best unfollow her across platforms). You may tell her that you are ghosting her because she is being unreasonable and you do not want to deal with that type of behaviour in your life;
  4. She will inevitably contact you some weeks or months later, either to apologise or to try and get you to apologise. Do not apologise and stick to your guns. Tell her that you do not want to hear from her unless she has an apology.
  5. If she never apologises, you're way better off. Move on.
  6. If she ever apologises, invite her to hang out and act as though nothing happened. She will be so confused but she'll be putty in your hands. Do not rush kino if the mood isn't right. Ease into it, act as though it's all ok, then escalate to the moon.

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At the end of that, you should have a completely devoted plate who will never risk ever crossing your boundaries ever again. In the event she does at a later time, you probably broke your frame. She will feel emotional healing after having sex with you again after so long. Ups and downs. That entire experience will make her emotionally addicted to you.

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My personal application of the above:

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I dated Haley (22 yr old HB8) for 7 months and all was perfect until I brought her to hang out with some friends. She wanted round 2 for some drinks but it was a Wednesday night and I wanted an early night in as I had work the next day. She pestered and after saying no 8 times, I said, "I'm tired of repeating myself", as calmly and nicely as I could. She became passive aggressive, suddenly quiet and made it awkward for me and my friends.

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She was supposed to stay over that night but as we got into my car I told her that I was sending her home because I did not like the way she was behaving. She lost it and demanded that I stop at the side of the highway and let her out. I refused 6 times, but at the 7th she was going batshit crazy so I thought F this and dropped her off. Sped away right after that.

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Around midnight I get these texts:

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"Where are you?"

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"I've been waiting here for an hour waiting for you to come back and get me"

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"I thought you cared about me? I guess it was all BS"

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"You and your fake ass can fuck off"

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I immediately block all her social media, except whatsapp incase she wanted to apologise. No contact from me. She tried contacting me to get me to apologise but I told her I did not want to hear from her unless she had an unequivocal apology.

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3 weeks later she sent me a serious and genuine apology. I invited her over and acted as though nothing happened. Fucked her brains out. She now worships my dick and regularly skips work to service me. It's been half a year with zero issues. She even suppresses her PMS as not to upset me. Every time she does even the slightest thing that displeases me (such as rolling her eyes), I tell her I owe her one spank, and it excites her. Tho she never does it again, on purpose anyway.

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Haley is a tattooed hottie that can get pretty much any guy she wants. Now she whispers "you own me body and soul" as I fuck her weekly. I have never seen a girl happier than when she is with me.

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I feel like there's more going on in my story above. Any further elaboration of the principles applicable is appreciated.