I've always struggled with girls, and looking back it's not hard to see why. I have terrible teeth and had the physique of a potato growing up. I had a single, working mother so my role models were all television and video game characters. I ended up getting very bad grades in school and getting stuck in minimum wage jobs after graduating HS.

I ended up in a comfortable long term relationship in my early 20's, until we hit a rough patch and wanted to try seeing other people. I was almost 25 y/o at this time. I realized how easily she - or any girl could get attention and hookups from guys on Tinder. I quickly found that I was hopeless in comparison. I kept lowering and lowering my standards until I finally realized that not even the least attractive women saw me as a good option.

Needless to say, it was devastating. I didn't want to live any more. I took a long, hard look in the mirror and decided it was time to change. I'd rather die than stay the same.

So I started lifting weights, and cut bullshit out of my diet entirely. I've seen a lot of FR's on here where guys claim to have had their lives transformed in 2 months. Maybe it's bullshit or maybe it had more to do with the confidence than the gains. Or maybe there is some survivorship bias, as people that didn't see great results generally don't post a field report.

Despite lifting and dieting religiously, I had a very mediocre physique. I tried to go out to clubs etc alone many times. Every time, it only made me depressed. I felt like I was invisible to women, didn't have the confidence to approach, and when I did approach I never got anywhere. But I just kept lifting to take the pain away.

For me, it took nearly four years to start to really see muscle definition. Over the years, I've learned to keep the lifting/nutrition tactics that work, and ditch the ones that don't. I honestly think I'm making gains faster right now than I was when I first started lifting weights. There are some muscles that I only recently learned to truly activate for hypertrophy. For example, I recently discovered how to get an amazing chest pump on the pec deck, my chest is definitely growing faster than it ever did from just benching and doing incline dumbbells.

Recently, my confidence has gone through the roof. Whatever I'm doing now, IS working. I've started getting so many comments from people I know about how muscular I've gotten. And when I look in the mirror, I can definitely see it.

I went out alone last night. A lot of girls were dressed skimpy, but all of the guys were dressed up in long sleeves. I had made the right choice, because I was the ONLY guy in the club wearing short sleeves. With a slim fit shirt on, I actually looked super muscular and I was the only guy showing any skin.

I had a long night of flirting and dancing with women. At the end of the night I danced with a cute girl, we made out, she let me touch every part of her body. It was clear that she wanted me to actually fuck her. Then she let me dance with her cute friend and I got to touch every part of her, too. Some other guy was trying to dance with her friend, but I was grabbing them both. I felt the other dude's hand try to pull my hand off the second girl, but I didn't feel intimidated by him at all so I just held it firm. A minute later my hat disappeared and I'm pretty sure that guy stole it LOL.

I started making the second girl really horny when I started rubbing her neck and ears. I turned her to face towards me and started kissing on her neck. That's when the first girl gave me a dirty look and pulled her away from me and they both left to a different area of the club. I just found this hilarious and couldn't stop laughing.

Going forward, I'm going to keep improving both my physique and other aspects of my life. I'm more motivated than ever. I will probably go out more since my confidence is skyrocketing, and push the limits of how far I can go with women. I WILL attain abundance, and right now I'm so close I can almost taste it.

TL;DR I've been invisible to women my entire life. Even years after I started lifting, I wondered if I would ever be attractive. I thought about quitting many times. However, after about 4 years it started to change. I went out last night dressed like a slut and, for the first time in my life, made out with a random girl. I also made people jealous and it felt great.

EDIT: A user PM'ed me asking if I had before/after pics, so I'll share them here.

August 2018 https://ibb.co/hywKVQy [I started lifting in December 2017, so you can imagine why I was underwhelmed...]

Dec 2021, right now https://ibb.co/Z6GCvX3