I'm busy right now.

2014-06-11T04:45:40+00:00

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ADrunkenmonkey · 2014-06-10T23:14:30+00:00

Women want to be a part of a man's life who has big things going on. They don't want to be the big thing in a man's life

2014-06-11T17:26:58+00:00

This is known as the scarcity effect. In the sexual market place, sending out signals that you are a scarce product might lead potential buyers to appraise you at a higher price, regardless of the actual quality of the product (your bundle of attributes).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity_(social_psychology)

sumZy · 2014-06-11T10:11:24+00:00

Yeah I usually have VHS tapes that are overdue or something like when women want to fuck me or hang out

This2hard86 · 2014-06-10T23:19:11+00:00

"I got shit to do" works every time

53Pirate · 2014-06-11T12:46:12+00:00

I'm gonna copy/paste my recent post from another thread because it's applicable here.
I'm an old married guy, btw, and not averse to getting some strange on the side from time-to-time (which I do, no judgements please) ... I don't do a lot of "stuff" with my wife, she holds down the fort, mows the grass & keeps up the yard, does most of the cooking, does the routine shopping, etc ... and fucks/sucks me. It's a happy arrangement.

I've found most women are just not that interesting to hang out with for extended periods with as "just-friends" ...... I spend a lot of my time doing things like scuba diving & spearfishing; Harley riding; off-shore fishing/boating; fishing for monster shark from the beach at night; fixing/maintaining mechanical things & building stuff; ocean & river kayaking, etc. I've done those things with women from time-to-time and found most women don't have enough knowledge, physical stamina, and/or need too much help from me with those activities. My intellectual interests include history, politics, philosophy, etc and most women have only a surface knowledge of those things. (well, not so much politics anymore ... I've become pretty apolitical as I've aged) Most women don't even make good drinking buddies, they can be entertaining for a bit as they drink but then they often just get stupid, silly, and/or annoying.

I've had "just friends" women want me to take them to do those things, but I've become increasingly reluctant to do so when it's apparent that "just friends" is all it's gonna be because, all in all, it's not usually a valuable use of my time to do those things with women who need so much help/guidance from me to do them, yet have no pussy to offer in return. At least a bro can pull his own weight.

Ergo, my interest in hanging out with most women is primarily sexual. So - If there's no possibility of a good roll in the hay on the horizon with a women, then I'd usually just as soon be doing those things with a bro who can contribute equally to the activity. I guess if I was really into things like watching chick-flicks, cooking, gossiping, children, etc I might enjoy being with a woman as "just-friends."

(Note that I qualify the above statements with "most" .... there those rare few women though who make good activity/discussion/drinking partners .... but they're few and far in-between and generally quite fuckable in looks/personality, so if it's gonna be "just-friends" it's just that much torture for me)

LuxuryWhip · 2014-06-11T07:41:02+00:00

Man wish I could upvote this a million times. This subreddit has taught me so much.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-06-12T00:35:13+00:00

Whatever it takes to get her off the pedestal is what works.

SkorchZang · 2014-06-11T04:49:31+00:00

Truly! "Busy" is the most important word a man should be saying to a woman who's interested in him, after "No".

"Busy", and consistently without any beta-boy explanations about what exactly you're busy with, or any pseudo-polite apologies for it.

culofiesta · 2014-06-11T07:42:10+00:00

too busy right now to watch Orange is the New Black

What's with women and that fucking show?

Junkis · 2014-06-11T14:41:27+00:00

"come back to bed" is one of the worst statements in history.

From the moment I wake up I got shit to do not lay in bed.

variableLt · 2014-06-11T04:10:39+00:00

You might think it's ironic that I'm saying this while on Reddit. But reddit takes only about an hour of my day, and it's relaxing and interesting. Can you see a woman for just an hour? No way. Even just meeting up to bang takes 2 hours when you add everything up: travel, foreplay, fucking, clean up, some form of post-coital relaxing, talk, and travel. And that's if you only fuck once!

This. It's just terrifying how exhausting those preparations are.

HitlersCow · 2014-06-11T13:28:17+00:00

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ont_anon · 2014-06-12T15:02:08+00:00

This right here.

On Tuesday I discussed taking a week's vacation this summer with one of my plates. I said that we'd go to my family's cottage for most of it. She asked what we would be doing together the rest of the time. I responded, "I've got lots of projects and reading that I want to catch up on." Knowing that the answer to this next question was going to be no I asked it anyways, "I presume that you'll have lots of stuff that you'll want to be doing, too?" "Mmmmm... not really." "Oh. Well, you can come and hang out at my place if you want, but you'll probably be pretty bored since my focus will be on all of these other things."

Was she pissed off that my focus wouldn't be on her? Was she upset that I wouldn't want to dedicate every waking second to her?

She responded in a very sultry voice, "Look at you, Mr. Go-Getter. I like that you have all of these other things on the go. It actually kinda makes me hot."

Title	I'm busy right now.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	80
Comments	26
Date	June 10, 2014 10:47 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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