Hey so this girl I work with put her number into my phone, made her name a contact and texted herself through it
I didn’t even ask, I only asked for her tick tok and she did both.
We seemed to vibe really well at work but I’m socially blind sometimes so obvious cues. Is she into me?
She does not work at the store I work at normally
She told me about her daddy issues and stuff after making a contest to see if her dad was worse or mine. I offhanded a short answer and allowed her to talk about it. I think I validated her slightly too much but I didn’t want to be an asshole about her dad beating her or her uncle trying to sleep with her when she was a kid. Just kind of direct eye contact asking if she feels ok, I only really responded with “you must have really needed to get that off your chest” she was trying to act like it didn’t bother her what they did.
We were at the register and it was baron of customers,
It was the first time I met her and she kept coming back to the register to talk to me, I would even move to like 3-4 different spots at the front and she would come talk to me
The end of the day we hung out more waiting for the next person. So that was for a few hours.
She’s 30 and I’m 25
She’s 4’10 and I’m 5’11
There was a bit of proximity happening, not too intense.
There were tests I think but not sure ( we were talking about how she died her hair and I asked to touch it. She says no kind of smiling and I drop it, a few minutes later she said I could touch it. I kind of palmed the back Of her head without actually grabbing and I think she responded well but I couldn’t tell. Wasn’t more than a second.
I also kind of teased her for being 30 a bit “would you be mad if I handed you a cane?” She said yes but was smiling and laughing I think.
there was a bit of nose teasing (she doesn’t like her nose) but I dropped the tension with validation for a bit because by that point I had already been teasing her for too long.
Im a cashier who was visiting her store for a day, My Store Manager is going to have me work with him there more often so I’ll see everyone (By the way everyone seems to really like me there according to my store manager)
she just happened to be a shift supervisor. I don’t know if that speaks for something.
Does this mean something or am I looking into it too much?
Also if it’s a good sign when should I text her to lead a date? This all happened today up to 1 hour ago. I have not texted her and didn’t plan to for a day and a half
Im sorry my post is all over the place. Let me know what you think. And remember I’m actually diagnosed autistic so don’t get disgusted with my lack of understanding, (you wouldn’t get mad at a deaf person for not hearing you well)
If you bothered reading this far thank you I would love to know what you think
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